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Hello everyone, for those who are keeping tabs on me, im doing all right, working a lot of overtime lately and this upcoming week even more. The kids are doing well, though there was a skirmish over the weekend, i understand what happened im just not entirely sure i approve of it all. But then, life is full of things each of us doesnt always
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None of this was directed at you, you HAVE been honest about how you feel, I do not blame you or anyone else for how they feel about this, my problem is not with the feelings or opinions that are circulating, my problem is with what one person said they were going to do, then that person did the opposite, and i think THAT is wrong.
As for choosing in the end, i am not choosing anything. And it isn't a matter of what i want. It is a matter of what is right. How would you feel if at some point in time you and sean were with me, and i completely ignored sean, to the point of being rude. It would be very uncomfortable for all concerned wouldn't it? And it would cause bad feelings and words would get said in the end. THAT is what worries me, because THAT is not right. As for the comments about judging. No one likes to be judged, it isn't fair or right. Yes, some things are dead wrong, but, people make mistakes, its called being human. No one can make the right choice every time because that would make them perfect. I'm sorry you feel the way you do. I do hope that one day you change your mind, but, if you don't, i guess I have to just get over that now don't I? I have precious few friends in this world, I do NOT want to lose a friend over this. You are entitled to your opinion, but what i asked for months ago was for you to leave the door open for that opinion to change, THAT is what i asked for. Anyway, i did not put all this in here the last few days to get anyone upset. I put it here because it is something that has been bothering me. I care a great deal about my friends and i love brad and i suppose in the end, THAT is what matters to me. What everyone else does about all this is up to them, but answer me this question, what are you going to do when he gets here? Not come to see me or not get together to do something anymore because he is here? or are you going to and just gonna ignore him the whole time? you answer that question, then tell me how you would feel if it was done to you. None of this was about you, i understand why you brought yourself into it, but i want it understood completely that NONE of this was about you, at all. I understood AND respected your answers because they were HONEST ones.
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