"There are always 2 sides...remember that Zoe." What the fuck else do you think was meant by "Knowing only one side of a story creates inherent prejudice." That is exactly what was said.
And as for an immature attack... nothing was said that wasn't true. Lauren must be an expert on if "sex without emotional attatchment" isn't possible. That is what was said, I assume that was what was intended. If the specifics of the situations are correct or not is another thing. But from my experience that was the way SHE discussed the situations in question.
"While trying to explain to Alex all of the reasons why casual sex won't work for me...All the many reasons that I deserve not to feel shitty about myself all the time, all the reasons I deserve more than that. Not that I want more than that with him... So confusing. I really do want to see him though before he moves all the way around the world never to return. But he says that he can't hang out with me and not thik about having sex with me. Well, i suppose if he wants to see me, he will just have to deal with that. I decided to put my foot down, and I am not budging. It's more about me than anything else. I feel like I need to have control over something in my life these days, and sex is the thing that I can control. I just don't want a relationship like that. I hope he understood and just doesn't think I am a crazy, emotional woman. Well, maybe sometimes I am..." ~we all know what happened after that.
"even though I haven't really dated anyone in a long time, I was still getting some every once in a while"
i never said that what you said wasn't true, its just ridiculous that you would take it out of context like that and make me sound like a complete whore who will sleep with anyone including a gay man. you know it is way more complicated than that. and my advice to zoe had absolutely nothing to do with you, so i am assuming you added your comment just to piss me off and start another fight. how can you stand to live like that?
what do you mean "we all know what happened after that"? you would have no idea what happened after that because i haven't told you all the things that were going on in my life since last spring when i started to realize what kind of person you really are.
And as for an immature attack... nothing was said that wasn't true. Lauren must be an expert on if "sex without emotional attatchment" isn't possible. That is what was said, I assume that was what was intended. If the specifics of the situations are correct or not is another thing. But from my experience that was the way SHE discussed the situations in question.
"While trying to explain to Alex all of the reasons why casual sex won't work for me...All the many reasons that I deserve not to feel shitty about myself all the time, all the reasons I deserve more than that. Not that I want more than that with him... So confusing. I really do want to see him though before he moves all the way around the world never to return. But he says that he can't hang out with me and not thik about having sex with me. Well, i suppose if he wants to see me, he will just have to deal with that. I decided to put my foot down, and I am not budging. It's more about me than anything else. I feel like I need to have control over something in my life these days, and sex is the thing that I can control. I just don't want a relationship like that. I hope he understood and just doesn't think I am a crazy, emotional woman. Well, maybe sometimes I am..."
~we all know what happened after that.
"even though I haven't really dated anyone in a long time, I was still getting some every once in a while"
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what do you mean "we all know what happened after that"? you would have no idea what happened after that because i haven't told you all the things that were going on in my life since last spring when i started to realize what kind of person you really are.
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