All things have their season, and in their times all things pass under heaven. A time to be born and a time to die. (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2
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I think you'll be fine. It's good to analyze and think about things, but not so good to be paranoid or overly skeptical. I figure there are two possibilities...either, when stuff like what happened between your mom and dad occur, there are warning signs and mistakes made that trail far back, or it's completely random and out of your control. I lean toward the first possibility, and I think you're smart enough and aware enough to pick up on these signs and correct problems before they get out of hand. If I'm wrong though and the second is true, then it's just part of the uncertainty of life and you'll just have to trust that it won't happen, or that if it does, you'll be able to handle it well. It also seems to me that a lot of what you're afraid of involves stuff that your parents weren't able to deal with, and hopefully your awareness of yourself and what happened will leave you better prepared for what could happen than they were. In any case, what I'm saying is that I have confidence you'll be able to deal with what's to come, and I think you should have that confidence as well.
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