it could be worse... I could have a broken arm
I've decided I'm going to take a new approach to life. Instead of asking the question, "Is this the right person for me?" Im going to ask "Am I being the right person?" Am I being a person who comes to a relationship with love that I want to share, or am I being a needy person hoping to get love??
I think the main reason that many of my relationships don't work is because I'm disappointed in not getting what I expected from the other person. I also think it works the other way around too. I think I try to hard to make someone happy, when in REAL love, it should come naturally.
Over the past couple years, I've realized too, that if I can't create an inner sense of security for myself, then how can I expect to do that for another person?
TRUST- or lack thereof- has been a big factor that has blinded me from what could potentially be good relationships in the past. I need help. Where/how do I find it????