Why people are so messed up

[sistermarylinda]

I think the thing that shakes the ground beneath us the most is when other people do what they need to do for their own sakes. It is shocking stuff that we then have to deal with, when we have our own problems, and then some of us run off to help others through. It seems like the tough stuff that we have to get through in life is usually handed on to us by others. For them to truly live and be themselves they sometimes have to do the things that are least expected of them and then we have to deal with how that affects us. Then again what is worse, dealing with it, or having them be shut into something that they are not?

It makes me wonder, have I done anything to shake other people's ground?