The Center's been getting lots of calls since the VF article. Thank you Lorna and Sally. Busy busy busy.
Have you ever stolen from anybody?
A lot of people.
Ever used an illegal substance?
No.
Last time you got drunk?
I hate this question 3 and a half weeks.
Ever had sex to music? if so what?
Yes. Not telling.
When do you get the horniest?
When I’m with the person I love.
Are you considered a tease?
No.
How many sexual partners have you had?
Three.
Ever gotten an STD?
No.
What's the worst thing you ever did?
I have a list.
Ever driven intoxicated?
I hate this question more Yes.
Ever rode with someone while they were intoxicated?
No.
Ever broke the law and got caught?
Yes.
Are you a Myspace addict?
No.
Ever been video-taped or video-taped your self performing sexual acts?
No.
Would you ever make a sex tape?
Probably not. People make them and go “This is just for us. No one else will see this.” And then it gets sneaked somehow. Too many people could use it against me and the Center.
Do you look at porn?
I have, but I don’t make it a habit.
What's your worst fear?
It’s a tie. Being left alone, and dying while leaving people behind.
Best person you ever had sex with?
Two of my exes could be reading this. I’m not answering.
Would you ever have an abortion?
No.
Parents ever walked in on you having sex or masturbating?
No.
Have you ever regretted dating someone?
... No.
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On The Lighter Side...
Do you jump in elavators when they take off and stop?
No! Doesn’t that break them?
Do you think you smile or laugh enough?
Yeah. I think so. I mean, I get way too serious for my own good, but I think I laugh enough.
How do you feel about your family?
I miss them all. I never really got to know any of them. And it’s sort of hitting me that even if I have kids, the Cassidy name is going to die with me, with this generation. The Rourke name too, for that matter.
Do you love someone besides family and close friends right now?
Like a significant other? No.
Are you happy with that someone right now?
I don’t have anyone that I don’t consider family or a close friend.
Were you teased when you were little?
Sort of.
Last time you cried really really hard, why did you cry?
What does that mean? Like the worst I’ve ever cried? Or just more than watching-a-sad-movie cry?
Do you like yourself?
Yes.
Who means the most to you at this point in your life?
I don’t have a specific someone. I have a small group of close friends.
Who are you jealous of?
I think I did a post a while ago saying what I’d borrow from people. I’m jealous of them for that.
Where do you go when you are sad?
I used to go to the bar. Or the liquor store. Now I have to walk around. Sitting at home when I’m sad makes me want to drink. I have to keep busy.
What is the worst lie you have ever told?
I’m fine.
Do you like how you are spending your life?
Yes. Very much.
How much weight can you curl with your opposite arm?
15 pounds? I haven’t lifted weights in awhile.
If you could choose a road trip somewhere, where would you go?
The ride to the boys’ place was pretty fun.
What would you do with a 3rd hand?
Drink coffee while doing other stuff. I do that anyway, but it would be easier.
If you could have any wish come true, what would it be?
I’d wish for infinite wishes. Then I wouldn’t have to choose.
Have any "Clapper" lamps in your house?
Hah, no.
Favorite energy drink?
Red Bull.
Who was the last person to tell you they loved you besides family?
John, I think.
Know any body who has a motorcycle? If so who?
I want one.
Name a random memory that makes you smile:
Audrey falling asleep on my lap after we went to the zoo.
How many belts do you own?
Four?
Can you play Guitar Hero/Rockband?
Not exceptionally well. I want to play the ACTUAL chords.
Who do you think about before you fall asleep at night?
Whoever I pray for.
What's your favorite article of clothing to wear?
Sweatpants. They’re comfy.
TEN FAVORITES
01. Televison show: So You Think You Can Dance, probably. I don’t have much to watch when it isn’t on.
02. Flower: Violets
03. Color: Green
04. Sport: Volleyball, I guess.
05. Picture of yourself:
This one06. Music: I don’t really have a favorite.
07. Food: Chocolate.
08. Season: Autumn.
09. Animal: Elephants.
10. Quote: “Don’t hold your head so low you can’t see the sky.”
TEN FACTS
01. Hometown: County Mayo, Ireland
02. Hair color: Red
03. Hair length: Shoulder blade-ish
04. Hair style: It’s all one length, mostly. I was thinking about getting a haircut. Apparently I do in the future.
05. Eye color: Greenish. They like to change.
06. Shoe size: 7
07. Mood: Um, that’s not really a fact. It fluctuates.
08. Orientation: Heterosexual
09. Available?: In theory
10. Lefty/righty: Righty.
TEN THINGS ABOUT YOUR LOVE LIFE
01. Have you ever been in love: Yes.
02. Do you believe in love: Yes.
03. Why did your last relationship fail? He died.
04. Have you ever been heartbroken?: Yes.
05. Have you ever broken someone's heart: I don’t know.
06. Have you ever fallen for your best friend: My best friend is a gay man. I don’t think that would be helpful for me.
07. Have you ever loved someone but never told them: Yes.
08. Are you afraid of commitment: I never used to be. I might be now.
09. Do you have a secret admirer: Well if I knew, it wouldn’t be secret, would it?
10. Do you believe in love at first sight: I believe in attraction, lust at first sight. But not love.
TEN THINGS: THIS OR THAT
01. Love or money: Love.
02. Hard liquor or beer: Neither. I’m not allowed.
04. One night stands or relationships: Relationships. I’ve never had a one night stand. Though I’m starting to wonder if I should have one. Ugh, I’m so stupid sometimes.
05. Television or internet: Internet.
06. Pepsi or coke: Pepsi.
07. Wild night out or romantic night in: Romantic night in.
08. Colored or black and white pictures: Depends on the subject.
09. Phone or in person: In person.
10. AIM or myspace: AIM
TEN EMOTIONS
01. Are you missing someone right now: I’m always missing someone. Who that someone is tends to fluctuate.
02. Are you happy: Overall? Yes.
03. Are you talking to anyone right now: Not an emotion. And no.
04. Are you bored: Nope. Working. Never bored at work.
05. Are you German: Not an emotion. And no.
06. Are you Irish: Not an emotion. And yes.
07. Are you French: No.
08. Are you Italian: No.
09. Are your parents still married: No. They’re dead. They were married when she died though.
10. Do you like someone right now: I like lots of people.