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[sirhcberzerk]

ok, so if u go into a relationship with the mind set that you'll be happy with wat u get rather then going into a relationship contantly wanting something more would you be better off?
i mean if u don't want something then there is no disappointment, right?
hmmmm
just a thought and more to come later probaly

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[lockexenocide]

If you don't want something, then you will get nothing out of the relationship, making it completely useless. Why go into a relationship expecting nothing out of it? It would be the same as never having one in the first place.

[sirhcberzerk]

things happen wether u want them too or not tho?
and expectations make your problem the other person's problem doesn't it?

[lockexenocide]

And that's the pure nature of a relationship! You never know what to expect, and the rules were meant to be followed. There's no linear pattern or set standard for a good relationship, or a lasting one, at that. You just take what you can get...

But you can't go into them with bad feelings, because they're bound to screw up that way.

[sirhcberzerk]

hmmmm
no, you see i'm not about rules and if the rules were meant to be followed and you knew the rules then you would no what to expect wouldn't u?
i find relationships to be a little more spontaneaous then that...
and i plan on just getting what i can get rather then taking it because personality wise i'm more of a reactive person by nature
and i wouldn't go into a relationship w/ bad feelings in mind

[sirhcberzerk]

i don't exactly want a relationship but if a situation were to occur that may lead to an intimate relationship i wouldn't run away from it

[sirhcberzerk]

i really don't want anything i'll be happy with what i get
i know that sounds like i'm desperate but i'm not
i'm having trouble explaining this myself...