Yesterday, I was building a card castle, but I ran out of playing cards. It was the biggest castle I have made yet, so I suppose running out of cards was inevitable. I began building with flashcards instead. I had bought them once by mistake, but they turned out to be useful for building the addition to my card castle. Written on one was the
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However, I've come to believe it's no surprise when such things happen. There is a limit to how cohesive any group will remain, and the true closeness and reliability of a group such as ours decreases as the size increases.
Even the outliers may serve a purpose, though.
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With this model in mind, what purpose would "outliers" serve.
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Such a variable serves for one part as a reminder, that there are actual menaces that exist without the safe bonds of the group and our mutual agreements not to harass or harm each other unreasonably. A lion prowling in the grasses pushes the animals of the herd that much closer together. We are not so defenseless ourselves, but it is somewhat comparable. Such variables might also serve as scapegoats for group members, eventually; useful in that bringing them down might bring the group closer together.
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Scapegoats don't seem necessary in this place. There are plenty of other threats to deal with: plenty of causes to band together over. Yet people still seem wary of doing so. Even before our number increased, that wariness was a factor. No cohesion. In this case, scapegoats and threats of that nature would seem to weaken the structure, if anything.
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They may not be necessary, but in the case of group members who are persistently violent, sociopathic and destructive, it might be one possible use for them. It would at least represent an attempt to formulate some kind of ultimate good purpose to them, rather than simply rejecting them, or hoping the problem goes away.
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Then everyone requires some "ultimate good purpose"?
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That may be a matter of opinion, as to whether it is required. I find the thought an ideal.
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It's an interesting ideal. I think I would disagree.
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What would your ideal be?
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I don't really have ideals. But there are people who don't serve a good purpose: just a necessary one.
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You don't think of necessary as good?
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