if you are to choose
kanina may pinanood kami nina agathz pero ndi ko sasabihin kung ano...hehe..
anyway, consider this. you are supposedly in a platonic relationship with your best guy friend. and then you feel that you're starting to fall. and then surprise! he's also in love...not with you but with another girl. eh eto yun, kung ikaw yung papipiliin (o di ba, sadista!), would you prefer na friend mo rin yung girl na he's falling for or do you prefer na total stranger (well, you know, to some extent, stranger) saýo yung girl?
...dissecting the matter...
1. kung friend mo, syempre di ba masakit yun kasi first mong maiisip, bakit sya? bakit hindi ikaw?
2. kung stranger, eh di it means na super may conflict na kasi the girl is bound to interpret your friendship in a different manner (think paranoia and insecurity)
3. kung friend mo yung girl, hindi pwede yung graceful exit sa kanilang lives kasi masyadong awkward. as a friend, they would expect you to be happy for them...lalo na kung wala silang idea sa feelings mo for the guy
4. kung stranger, hindi ka expected to like her instantly tapos kahit na sabihin pa na dadating kayo dun sa "chums chums" alam mo na hindi mangyayari yun kasi faults na lang nýa yung nakikita mo. kahit na mag-deny ka pa, ang maiisip mo pa rin lagi, bakit sya pa?!
haaaay...
...basta same na masakit...yun lang yung sure ko...
anyway, consider this. you are supposedly in a platonic relationship with your best guy friend. and then you feel that you're starting to fall. and then surprise! he's also in love...not with you but with another girl. eh eto yun, kung ikaw yung papipiliin (o di ba, sadista!), would you prefer na friend mo rin yung girl na he's falling for or do you prefer na total stranger (well, you know, to some extent, stranger) saýo yung girl?
...dissecting the matter...
1. kung friend mo, syempre di ba masakit yun kasi first mong maiisip, bakit sya? bakit hindi ikaw?
2. kung stranger, eh di it means na super may conflict na kasi the girl is bound to interpret your friendship in a different manner (think paranoia and insecurity)
3. kung friend mo yung girl, hindi pwede yung graceful exit sa kanilang lives kasi masyadong awkward. as a friend, they would expect you to be happy for them...lalo na kung wala silang idea sa feelings mo for the guy
4. kung stranger, hindi ka expected to like her instantly tapos kahit na sabihin pa na dadating kayo dun sa "chums chums" alam mo na hindi mangyayari yun kasi faults na lang nýa yung nakikita mo. kahit na mag-deny ka pa, ang maiisip mo pa rin lagi, bakit sya pa?!
haaaay...
...basta same na masakit...yun lang yung sure ko...