I'm supposed to be studying but didn't allow myself enough time and will have a hell of a time focussing knowing that I only have 30 mins. Journaling is a better idea
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well little things... for example she'll complain to me about my sister's relationship with her boyfriend. they're a perfectly happy couple, but apparently he's not good enough for her for reasons I don't find to be of major concern. my mom can go on and on about such things many times over to everyone in the family. this doesn't bother me too much. or if she can't make up her mind about something, discusses it with you which seems to help her come to a conclusion- then she'll end up doing the exact opposite thing. she's also very random in conversation, bringing up subjects, backtracking 20 mins ago, etc. so at times it takes me a few seconds to figure out exactly what she's referring to and other times it's like beating a dead horse with a stick. i will get bothered though when she gets judgmental/opinionated about things; for example my parenting. my mom is not always tactful in conversation about such things- instead she'll randomly bring something up in frustration which will leave me feeling attacked. and in that moment, as opposed to if it were to have been brought up more calmly, I might respond harshly. i suppose i can get defensive pretty easily at times which also doesn't help.
i will get bothered though when she gets judgmental/opinionated about things; for example my parenting. my mom is not always tactful in conversation about such things- instead she'll randomly bring something up in frustration which will leave me feeling attacked. and in that moment, as opposed to if it were to have been brought up more calmly, I might respond harshly. i suppose i can get defensive pretty easily at times which also doesn't help.
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