You Had a Bad Day

[simulatedmind]

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Why does it have to be a bitch?

[angeldenied]

Why cant it be a bastard?..... And now the real reason for stayin in school! Sweatshirt pressed breasts from a KNOWING female.. hehehehe... You so crazy. I love you! Things will get better. And I dont think that you have to worry in the sex department. Every male is compiled to be "excited" and dwell on sex. Its their nature. If you think about it, that is the way that a man is brought up. When a boy loses his virginity he then becomes a man. And that is the way it always has been. Girls are more frowned upon for this. Although it is more accepted now, even if you read a book set way back when, a boy will go through life, and then that he loses his virginity and he is then a man. Because that is what men do. Thats what men have been raised to believe. Therefore if you look at it in those terms, why shouldnt a man look at woman and feel excited, or think of sex consistently, when in all reality that is when they most FEEL like a man. And because most women make them feel bad for this, they feel ashamed and then wonder why they think this way. That there is something wrong with them. But there isnt. Sex is a very healthy expression. And it doesnt mean that you are onjectifying women, if you treat them just like that. A woman. And by that I mean, you talk to her, you listen to her, you appreciate her. And what thoughts may come are also fleeting. I mean, you walk past a girl who is wearing a mini skirt with no underwear, that draws your attention. Ofcourse. And you may dwell on that for a little while and think. Damn. Maybe even get a pic. :D (j/k) But come a day or two later, you wont remember that. Because some other girl will be there to capture your attention. It does not mean anything. It is the acting upon it. In order to objectify women, you would have to openly stare at them, make sexual comments when unwanted or two more than one female, or be in a relationship and bed hop and think that is ok. Looking is not a crime. Thinking is not a crime. And the other thing that you have to consider is this, even though it is proclaimed that men objectify women, is it not the same for a woman who does it to a man? Or take for example, a pretty girl with a nice body, she could be the nicest girl in the world, and you notice her, you thought about her sexually, another girl will notice this and the claws come out. Is she not objectifying that woman herself? Touching is where you get yourself in trouble and things get sticky. No pun intended. I see nothing wrong with a man expressing himself in a sexual way. Its appreciation for the female sex. Some men take it overboard, but in your case. I think that you are on the safe side of the tracks. And there is nothing wrong with you. You are a sexual type of person. And guess what? Although women dont like men to give the attention else where, that sexuality comes in handy in the bedroom. Because all that thinking and sexual tension builds up, and it makes the bedroom steamy. I know ;X So if women were to stop and see that as long as the imagination can roam, the man will come home. This is not always true, I know this. But I think that sometimes women are to hard on men when they dont need to be. Its a vicious cycle of life, she hurts him because someone hurt her, then he inturns hurts someone else because she hurt him...etc... It never ends. But you understand what I am trying to say I hope. But it is 7 am and I jsut got home, and I am tired as hell.

Ps I am glad that you would never do that either. Because I dont know what I would do without you. I love you and Sophia and I would never be the same without you here. Please, grow old with me :D I love you! Just remember that WE will always be here for you. And that we love you endlessly. Even when things are tough. You are a great man, and you have overcome many obstacles in your life and I dont foresee anything standing in your way. You have changed a great deal in my life, and I hope I can help you do the same. Please dont ever think that way. :C *tear* I love you. I know I have said that three times now, but I just wanted you to hear it again and again. :D