Lots of Scattered Thoughts

[simplyme825]

First and foremost, if anyone knows the answer to this please let me know. If i have someone on my friends list but I'm not on their friends list does that mean that they can read my semi-private stuff but I can't read their semi-private stuff

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[clumsy_fool]

friend-privacy question: correct.

[mvedder]

Thats the lesson, my friend. You and Johnny boy have hit it on the nail. Most relationships and marriages fail because of the "Greener Grass Syndrome", and we miss the person who is right in front of us, loving us more than any poutier lip or shaplier body ever could. That is the hardest thing for us as men to overcome, especially when we're fighting a raging sexual tempest in our minds, not to mention in our pants. Every supple woman with a charming personality can become easy prey. The "what if" factor plays havoc with our feelings, and we can be confused by errant fantasies of that perfect "soul" mate - "What if it's this one? Am I making a mistake by being with so-and-so? Waht if that kiss is the one with THE MAGIC?" I have made the mistake more than a few times myself, and I understand about the curiosity, but there is a reason the cliche cat was killed by curiosity (btw- I love that alliteration). So let's band together, as men who have a handle on our... um.. handles, to love our buxomy beauties.