Listen up.
LISTEN:
I don't even know who will read this livejournal, because this is one of the few entries I am making public. But for all who reads, lurks, or whatever; Think about what I have to say. I really hope your reading..
Drama is ridiculous. It is even more ridiculous because we ourselves create it. ESPECIALLY us girls create it. We are all guilty of doing it, one should not deny that. But this drama in Bradenton has gone to an unnecessary extreme. Backstabbing, Bitching, Yelling, Shit-talking, and Awkwardness has all accompanied this unneeded drama, and here are some suggestions to lay this shit to rest:
1. Rumors/Lies- One should never assume something is true if they just hear it from word of mouth. Always be 100% positive of somethings' truth before assessing the situation. Ex: If one were to think one was cheated on, or a friend was cheated on, find out ALL the facts and dont just assume that is the case. It's not. This can result in looking foolish.
2. Ganging up- If someone wronged you and you are pissed off, that is fine. But don't drag 8 people with you if they don't even have the slightest clue to what the exact issue was. You can try to make people hate other people, but the reality in this is you will look immmature.
3. Immaturity- We are all guilty of this. But shouldn't we learn and grow from things rather than yell and shout at someone you don't like? Calling cell phones and screaming at someone: Is that really going to solve anything or make you feel any better? NO.
4. GET OVER IT- I know what you are saying. Isn't the pot calling the tea kettle black. But someone once told me, "Emily. Honestly, you really need to just get over it." You'll feel so much better. Everyone has their differences and their exboyfriends, but I mean cmon. Does everyone honestly think that there is enough boys to go around where noone dates eachothers exboyfriends/girlfriends?? All situations and relationships are different, but the majority is that people need to move on.
5. Comprimise- Everyone has their points, their stories, their interpretations. Yet we are all different and things are always boung to be misconstrued/misinterpreted. Sometimes it just needs to be realized that we are both wrong in the matter, and should both apologize.
Basically, my point is that all of this drama has reached a climax, and it is time for it to stop. No normal person can say that they enjoy drama, being in it, or even making it. Now the real question is, who is going to be the bigger person?
Please<33. I hate this.
<3 Emily.
I don't even know who will read this livejournal, because this is one of the few entries I am making public. But for all who reads, lurks, or whatever; Think about what I have to say. I really hope your reading..
Drama is ridiculous. It is even more ridiculous because we ourselves create it. ESPECIALLY us girls create it. We are all guilty of doing it, one should not deny that. But this drama in Bradenton has gone to an unnecessary extreme. Backstabbing, Bitching, Yelling, Shit-talking, and Awkwardness has all accompanied this unneeded drama, and here are some suggestions to lay this shit to rest:
1. Rumors/Lies- One should never assume something is true if they just hear it from word of mouth. Always be 100% positive of somethings' truth before assessing the situation. Ex: If one were to think one was cheated on, or a friend was cheated on, find out ALL the facts and dont just assume that is the case. It's not. This can result in looking foolish.
2. Ganging up- If someone wronged you and you are pissed off, that is fine. But don't drag 8 people with you if they don't even have the slightest clue to what the exact issue was. You can try to make people hate other people, but the reality in this is you will look immmature.
3. Immaturity- We are all guilty of this. But shouldn't we learn and grow from things rather than yell and shout at someone you don't like? Calling cell phones and screaming at someone: Is that really going to solve anything or make you feel any better? NO.
4. GET OVER IT- I know what you are saying. Isn't the pot calling the tea kettle black. But someone once told me, "Emily. Honestly, you really need to just get over it." You'll feel so much better. Everyone has their differences and their exboyfriends, but I mean cmon. Does everyone honestly think that there is enough boys to go around where noone dates eachothers exboyfriends/girlfriends?? All situations and relationships are different, but the majority is that people need to move on.
5. Comprimise- Everyone has their points, their stories, their interpretations. Yet we are all different and things are always boung to be misconstrued/misinterpreted. Sometimes it just needs to be realized that we are both wrong in the matter, and should both apologize.
Basically, my point is that all of this drama has reached a climax, and it is time for it to stop. No normal person can say that they enjoy drama, being in it, or even making it. Now the real question is, who is going to be the bigger person?
Please<33. I hate this.
<3 Emily.