Love, I really dont understand it...
Can you ever fall out of love?
I don’t think you can. I mean, I know they say, "Time will heal all pain" when you break up...but does real love fade? I thought that was the point of "love". I thought "true love" never faded. So how can time heal the pain of a breakup with someone you love? Are the people who say this just inconsiderate, or do they just believe you weren’t in love with that certain someone? Or perhaps you really weren’t in love with that person, and after time you realize that you weren’t. So how do you realize you’re in love with them? Break up with them and then in a couple of months see if you’re still thinking about them? That seems like a stupid way to find out if its “true love”.
What scares me is that everyone wants to be in love, so they’re not really sure when they actually are. I think that’s part of the reason the divorce rate is so high, people are so desperate to be loved and to receive it, they are willing to skew how they see a person, in order for that person to fit in the mold of “love”.
I don’t want, nor expect, to be in love with every guy I date. Because when i do find "the one" I want the feeling to be so wonderful, so different, then what i have ever felt with any other guy. I really believe that there is some one for everyone, but i don’t believe that everyone has the potential to be that "someone" for whomever they date.
I dunno, am I making any hint of sense?
I don’t think you can. I mean, I know they say, "Time will heal all pain" when you break up...but does real love fade? I thought that was the point of "love". I thought "true love" never faded. So how can time heal the pain of a breakup with someone you love? Are the people who say this just inconsiderate, or do they just believe you weren’t in love with that certain someone? Or perhaps you really weren’t in love with that person, and after time you realize that you weren’t. So how do you realize you’re in love with them? Break up with them and then in a couple of months see if you’re still thinking about them? That seems like a stupid way to find out if its “true love”.
What scares me is that everyone wants to be in love, so they’re not really sure when they actually are. I think that’s part of the reason the divorce rate is so high, people are so desperate to be loved and to receive it, they are willing to skew how they see a person, in order for that person to fit in the mold of “love”.
I don’t want, nor expect, to be in love with every guy I date. Because when i do find "the one" I want the feeling to be so wonderful, so different, then what i have ever felt with any other guy. I really believe that there is some one for everyone, but i don’t believe that everyone has the potential to be that "someone" for whomever they date.
I dunno, am I making any hint of sense?