Sunday...and things are much the same

[simply_linds]

So what do you do when your lover is hurting, and can't or won't talk to you about it

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[velvetcure]

i'm the total opposite of C, i'm the kind of person who keeps it inside. as a little insight (?), i know that i like to be left alone. but in the sence that i'm not being drilled. not physically alone. if ben's hurting and he's not ready to talk, then you just being with him (even if your not saying anything) can help. he loves you, and just the fact that you're willing to be patient and help him, proves you love him. give him a few more days. he'll start to come around.

[simply_linds]

I hope you are right, Velvet. Good to see you again.

I don't want you all to misunderstand-remember we're two guys, Ben and I, and sometimes, sometimes a little roughness is welcome. Ben's never hurt me. Ever. He's not the kind of guy to do so. But he and I--sometimes, we both understand that we need something harder, a little heavier between us--I guess I can't explain it very well at all where you guys don't think we are nuts.

Linds

[velvetcure]

i don't think you're nut. and hey, don't underestimate us girls. heavy lust is most welcome at times. it's all in the throws of passion. (did i just say "heavy lust"?)

[simply_linds]

Heavy Lust--I like that!

I've only been with a girl once and it was a DISASTER! LOL. I was too young and confused and that probably had everything to do with it. I was just sad cuz she was a friend and that ruined everything. Don't know if you watch QAF but when Justin agreed to sleep with Daphne I was screaming NO NO DON'T DO IT YOU IDIOT!!! at the tv, but that didn't work. And see what happened! Disaster! Although I think he enjoyed it more than I did. LOL.

Linds, definitely a man's man

[velvetcure]

ha! i saw that. but being a fag hag, i was sooo jealous. heh. but yes, it was a disater.