What to do, what to do
There is a member of my writers' group who smells. It isn't regular, didn't-bathe BO, it's that bacterial stink that happens in skin folds that don't get cleaned out properly (the guy's fat and diabetic, among other issues). I can handle sweaty BO, but the bacterial reek has that something-died element, and I nearly visibly retched yesterday when the odor wafted my way. Does anyone know of any nice way to tell someone they don't bathe carefully enough and need to wash under the folds? The guy has kind of a fragile ego and would be appalled to know he's grossing his group members out to this extent, so I'm not sure how to approach him about it.