Status Check
It occurs to me that some of you who haven't seen me or called me don't have an update.
-BayCon was filled with bright spots of good stuff with a general undercurrent of not-so-good-stuff
-I am still okay, but with current circumstances and the lack of general contact, I'm left with a generally failing feeling of being okay
-Given the above, I will likely put down my nobility complex and be reaching out to friends to keep my head and mood above-level
-The anniversary of our marriage is on Monday. Please don't expect me to be social nor chipper
-Life isn't all bad, and I consider myself fortunate that there are enough good things in my life that I'm not being crushed by the pervasive topic at hand
There are a few questions and comments that I believe require a response, but I don't know how to respond to some of these without unscreening a person's comment. Input welcome. Lacking anything I can use, I'll just answer the questions in anonymous fashion in a locked post to those who responded to the announcement.
It has also been recommended by my counselor that I should use a medium such as LiveJournal to leave little stickynotes for myself. Reminders of "If I feel 'x', I promise unto myself to do 'y'". Something to help keep me anchored before the more parting occurs and I fall into further risk of becoming uncentered. I'm pondering either creating a new LJ or creating a filter. Input welcome here as well.
And that is the state of the Quasi-Asian.
Comments on this topic are, of course, being screened.
-BayCon was filled with bright spots of good stuff with a general undercurrent of not-so-good-stuff
-I am still okay, but with current circumstances and the lack of general contact, I'm left with a generally failing feeling of being okay
-Given the above, I will likely put down my nobility complex and be reaching out to friends to keep my head and mood above-level
-The anniversary of our marriage is on Monday. Please don't expect me to be social nor chipper
-Life isn't all bad, and I consider myself fortunate that there are enough good things in my life that I'm not being crushed by the pervasive topic at hand
There are a few questions and comments that I believe require a response, but I don't know how to respond to some of these without unscreening a person's comment. Input welcome. Lacking anything I can use, I'll just answer the questions in anonymous fashion in a locked post to those who responded to the announcement.
It has also been recommended by my counselor that I should use a medium such as LiveJournal to leave little stickynotes for myself. Reminders of "If I feel 'x', I promise unto myself to do 'y'". Something to help keep me anchored before the more parting occurs and I fall into further risk of becoming uncentered. I'm pondering either creating a new LJ or creating a filter. Input welcome here as well.
And that is the state of the Quasi-Asian.
Comments on this topic are, of course, being screened.