Men are like violin music, women like that of cellos
Certain dear women have been on the phone to me a lot of late. The theme is the same. Crap men. Why do these men have no balls to follow through? Or are they just deceitful, shag hungry, boys presenting potential that isn't really available? Either way, it seems there's a lot of crap out there. Personally, I think it's more honest to use an escort agency if that're after; while it may be a little sleazy, at least it's not cruelly deceitfully in a way that makes women angry. Angry women ain't no good to themselves or the good blokes who they'd really like to meet someday.
I had a discussion with a female cellist about kinky cellists. I went on to compare women to cello music, and men to violins'. Even average cello playing sounds reasonably beautiful and sensual, just as average women appear to be acceptably attractive. In contrast, the average violin playing holds little appeal; but the Uber violist, well they are so fucking awesome, operating on so many levels simultaneously, that they take you places you never imagined getting to until you'd been. Is this perhaps because I don't fancy women, so can see the attractiveness in women without a filter of fanciability removing most of them from the list of attractive women? Or are average women more attractive than average men? Do men look at their male friends and think, 'He's intelligent, handsome, witty, solvent etc. and says he wants a partner/ family. Why doesn't he have a gorgeous girlfriend?' God, this sounds so Bridget Joneseque, but I live in London and know a number of single women in search of 'the one', and they all have so much more about them than her.
Must stop this incoherent ramble now, I fear I may be sounding like a sour-puss harridan (which I so don't ever want to become).