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I have a question for anyone who still reads my journal, and I hope people will respond.
Ok. I dated a guy for about 2 months. I was well on my way to falling madly in love with him. You might or might not remember me writting about a guy named Trison. That is who it is. He stopped talking to me basically after we broke up. A few months later, me still not being over him was becoming an issue with me and my friends, them telling me to get over him, blahdiddy blahdiddy blah. His 21st birthday was spent with me and my roommates. Fine, having him over at the house is a little awkward, but doable. Then, after we go to bed, he comes into my room to talk with me. Fine, thats ok. We talk, and we end up sleeping together. I think from what he has told me that he wants to be with me again, but since soon thereafter he stops talking to me again, that is a bust.
I just found out recently (as in the past couple days) that the reason he and I split up was because he thought I cheated on him with my best friend Richard. Who had a girlfriend. But besides that, I would never cheat on someone I was going out with, who I was almost completely and utterly in love with. You guys know that.
My question is, when I talk to him about this, (and I AM going to talk to him, it is not something he is going to avoid) should I forgive him his mistake of thinking this, and see if we can work things out, or should I just try to be friends with him, or what? I'm confused, and I don't know what to do. I don't think I am over him still, which I don't think is a particularly good thing, but there you go.
I need some help with this one guys. Please tell me what you think.
V.
Ok. I dated a guy for about 2 months. I was well on my way to falling madly in love with him. You might or might not remember me writting about a guy named Trison. That is who it is. He stopped talking to me basically after we broke up. A few months later, me still not being over him was becoming an issue with me and my friends, them telling me to get over him, blahdiddy blahdiddy blah. His 21st birthday was spent with me and my roommates. Fine, having him over at the house is a little awkward, but doable. Then, after we go to bed, he comes into my room to talk with me. Fine, thats ok. We talk, and we end up sleeping together. I think from what he has told me that he wants to be with me again, but since soon thereafter he stops talking to me again, that is a bust.
I just found out recently (as in the past couple days) that the reason he and I split up was because he thought I cheated on him with my best friend Richard. Who had a girlfriend. But besides that, I would never cheat on someone I was going out with, who I was almost completely and utterly in love with. You guys know that.
My question is, when I talk to him about this, (and I AM going to talk to him, it is not something he is going to avoid) should I forgive him his mistake of thinking this, and see if we can work things out, or should I just try to be friends with him, or what? I'm confused, and I don't know what to do. I don't think I am over him still, which I don't think is a particularly good thing, but there you go.
I need some help with this one guys. Please tell me what you think.
V.