Back in April....
I think that I said that I had about 60 more days until it was finalized. 60 days came and went, like an excruciatingly painful root-canal.
Well, it's been 90 days and all of the paperwork was finally submitted last Wednesday. So, by my next birthday, Sept. 19th, I should be a single dude, with kids.
I've had people ask me.... "Are you going to celebrate?" I'll never understand that concept. How do you celebrate the end of something like that? Let alone, celebrating my single-ness?
I could see maybe celebrating for a funeral. Meaning, I've had several people pass away and ask me to celebrate their life/death, but a marriage? That sounds pretty cold and heartless to me. I've not lost my heart and all of those feelings. I still believe in love. I believe in forever.
Love for that other person will always be there. I don't believe that love dies.... it changes, but it doesn't die. I don't like that we couldn't work things out, but I will never hate that person. Never go out and celebrate my singleness or the end of my marriage. I could never hate something that I loved. Shoot, it still hurts when I pick-up and drop-off the kids, but it's getting better all the time.
I know it's been a while since I last updated about my life on here... Apparently when you stop updating people tend to LJ-dump ya. lol.... you know who I'm talking about. It's just been going.... nothing really good/bad to report. My job is going really well. Yeah.... I'm one of those people... I love my job! Honestly.
Remember, YOU can choose to be happy! :D
Take care,
Kim