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So, I had this friend back in high school that was a year behind me, and when she graduated, she up and moved to Missouri without telling any of us and I felt betrayed. But I got over it, and kept in touch, watched through facebook as she went through her pregnancy and her wedding, because I couldn't be a part of either.
When she moved back, I made a point to get back in touch, and I hung out with her over the Christmas break, when we were finally back in the same city for the first time in four years. I got to meet her son, and catch up and it was great, and I thought maybe we'd be on the same page.
I just found out that she just had a second child. Which meant when we hung out, she had to know she was pregnant, and she never told me. And disappeared off the face off the earth. Once again, I found out through facebook, even though she has my number and doesn't even live A MILE away from my house.
Guess what. I feel even more betrayed this time around.
This might turn into the whole Michelle issue again. This is the second friend that got pregnant and never told me until it was somehow obvious. I gave up on Michelle when she didn't invite me to her baby shower. (This entry will be made public, so she can see it and understand that she had hurt me for the last time).
I don't even know what to think. I feel like giving up on EVERYONE I knew in HS. (Besides Em, because she's incredible)
Is this what is going to happen five years from now with all my college friends and fraternity brothers?
I really hate this stage of my life.
When she moved back, I made a point to get back in touch, and I hung out with her over the Christmas break, when we were finally back in the same city for the first time in four years. I got to meet her son, and catch up and it was great, and I thought maybe we'd be on the same page.
I just found out that she just had a second child. Which meant when we hung out, she had to know she was pregnant, and she never told me. And disappeared off the face off the earth. Once again, I found out through facebook, even though she has my number and doesn't even live A MILE away from my house.
Guess what. I feel even more betrayed this time around.
This might turn into the whole Michelle issue again. This is the second friend that got pregnant and never told me until it was somehow obvious. I gave up on Michelle when she didn't invite me to her baby shower. (This entry will be made public, so she can see it and understand that she had hurt me for the last time).
I don't even know what to think. I feel like giving up on EVERYONE I knew in HS. (Besides Em, because she's incredible)
Is this what is going to happen five years from now with all my college friends and fraternity brothers?
I really hate this stage of my life.