please excuse me, while i fall into a million pieces...
07/31/06
yes, its childish...
but i do wish the world was one big happy place where evrything is okay :/
i just want it to be over soon. i dont like it when its this way. it scares me.
he hates it. i cant function without him.
i know he just wants me to stand by myslef. its like he's my training wheels, and i just cant take them off. because as soon as i do, i'll fall over.
my mental state is not so well.
Definition
Dependent personality disorder is primarily characterized with an extreme need of other people, to a point where the person is unable to make any decisions or take an independent stand on their own. There is a fear of separation, cling, and submissive behavior. They have a marked lack of decisiveness, self-confidence, and self-denigration.
Diagnostic Criteria ( DSM-IV™ ).
Excessive need to be taken care of, as indicated by at least five of the following:
1. Has a hard time in making everyday decisions with out getting reassurance and advice from others.
2. Has other assume the responsibility for the major areas of their life.
3. Can not show disagreement with others in fear of being rejected.
4. Difficulty in doing things on their own.
5. Will do almost anything to get the support of others.
6. When along, a feeling of uncomforted or helpless in being unable to care for themselves.
7. When one caring or support relationship ends they are compelled to seek another.
8. A preoccupation and unrealistic fear of being left alone to care for themselves.