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I'm assuming that most people are familiar with illwillpress.com and Foamy the Squirrel. If not, check out that site and some of his rants.
Anyways, sometimes I can really relate to him in his rants. I have all of these friends who come crying to me for advice and then don't take it, and then come crying to me again because stuff didn't end up the way they would've liked for it to. I swear to God... it's okay if you don't want to take my advice but don't come crying to me a SECOND time when things don't work out.
I'm referring to my roommate. Who has become less of a roommate and more of a vortex for all things dramatic on this campus. It's only November and she continues a long-distance "relationship" with a boy from August who is studying a semester abroad in Paris, had a mess-around relationship with a friend of a friend, called rape on one of my friends (which is a faulty accusation), has blown off important assignments to smoke marijuana/drink on numerous occasions (by numerous, I mean more than 6), randomly asked some guy at a Frat party (of all places) to go have sex, she has consumed alcohol to the point of borderline poisoning, she is failing 3 of 5 classes, has continuously pursued another friend of a friend and then she kissed his roommate, she has made out or taken it further with around half of the guys in 1st floor C-wing who we hang out with, broken up two best friends/roommates because she kissed both of them (one of which I'm involved with), left me throwing up at a party to make out with the other roommate, told off perhaps the only guy that she seriously did have feelings for here because he stuck up for me when he ended up taking me home from said-party that night, slammed our door about 29,843,589 times the other night when various other people expressed discontent at her actions from the same evening, she has made out on my friend's bed with a guy that was not my friend, she's boning more than one guy while still leading on this guy from downstairs that likes her (this being my guy's roommate). Just... ugh. This girl is out of control.
So, I'm not really mad about ALL of this. Honestly. I'm told I should be, but I avoid confrontation when I'm able. When she left me at the party to get ass, well, 1. it was my fault for getting so shit-faced, and 2. I was too drunk to be mad at the time so it would've just been gay for me to get mad about it later, and 3. I did know the guy whose party it was (although I really was too much for anybody to handle that night and I'm so happy that my friend from 1st floor was there to get me home.) As for kissing my Chris, I guess it kind of gets under my skin now that I think about it, but it was a triple kiss that I think she meant to lead into he and I being by ourselves... which it did. But the thing is, she knew that Chris's roommate (also conveniently named Chris) liked her... and Chris and I would have gotten to this point by ourselves anyway.
Whatever. What I am annoyed about is how two-timing she's becoming. The Chris that likes her went INSANE when he heard about the three of us - throwing stuff around the room, threatening my Chris, attempting to drive on 81 while insanely inebriated (and he would have, too, had it not been for Tom. We both swear to this day that we do not want to even fathom what might have happened if Tom hadn't taken his keys.) It just doesn't seem like she thinks about anyone but herself, or that she doesn't care what happens to anyone even if it's her fault. For example:
-My friend, who she called rape on, could have gotten kicked out of school. And she still acts like it's some kind of joke or something.
-When the Chris's had their drama, I sat her down to talk about it and she told me she didn't really care about anything except what people were thinking of her.
-How quickly she dropped all feelings she had for Derek as soon as he criticized her for half of a second for something that was pretty seemingly messed up.
-She knows how much Chris likes her now. She knows perfectly well. So Friday, she left me with my head in a toilet to go make out with him. Saturday, she spends all day smoking up and boning the guy she'd been boning (the one whose roommate she kissed.)
So I've tried to talk to her, and I tried to make her not sound like a slut. I tried to say that I was in the same boat. But I was honest and I was real. I addressed her actions as a serious problem, because they are. This was a week ago. I've seen no difference in said actions.
I can't take it. I've even tried warning the Chris that she's leading on. And so has everyone on his hall because he's so blind-sided by her, although everyone else can see through it perfectly well. He's so goddamn stubborn though... so he has to find out for himself, I guess.
I don't want her hanging out with these guys anymore. All that results is trouble and they don't deserve that anymore than I deserve to be associated with all that she causes. Fuck this. I don't know what else I can possibly do.
Anyways, sometimes I can really relate to him in his rants. I have all of these friends who come crying to me for advice and then don't take it, and then come crying to me again because stuff didn't end up the way they would've liked for it to. I swear to God... it's okay if you don't want to take my advice but don't come crying to me a SECOND time when things don't work out.
I'm referring to my roommate. Who has become less of a roommate and more of a vortex for all things dramatic on this campus. It's only November and she continues a long-distance "relationship" with a boy from August who is studying a semester abroad in Paris, had a mess-around relationship with a friend of a friend, called rape on one of my friends (which is a faulty accusation), has blown off important assignments to smoke marijuana/drink on numerous occasions (by numerous, I mean more than 6), randomly asked some guy at a Frat party (of all places) to go have sex, she has consumed alcohol to the point of borderline poisoning, she is failing 3 of 5 classes, has continuously pursued another friend of a friend and then she kissed his roommate, she has made out or taken it further with around half of the guys in 1st floor C-wing who we hang out with, broken up two best friends/roommates because she kissed both of them (one of which I'm involved with), left me throwing up at a party to make out with the other roommate, told off perhaps the only guy that she seriously did have feelings for here because he stuck up for me when he ended up taking me home from said-party that night, slammed our door about 29,843,589 times the other night when various other people expressed discontent at her actions from the same evening, she has made out on my friend's bed with a guy that was not my friend, she's boning more than one guy while still leading on this guy from downstairs that likes her (this being my guy's roommate). Just... ugh. This girl is out of control.
So, I'm not really mad about ALL of this. Honestly. I'm told I should be, but I avoid confrontation when I'm able. When she left me at the party to get ass, well, 1. it was my fault for getting so shit-faced, and 2. I was too drunk to be mad at the time so it would've just been gay for me to get mad about it later, and 3. I did know the guy whose party it was (although I really was too much for anybody to handle that night and I'm so happy that my friend from 1st floor was there to get me home.) As for kissing my Chris, I guess it kind of gets under my skin now that I think about it, but it was a triple kiss that I think she meant to lead into he and I being by ourselves... which it did. But the thing is, she knew that Chris's roommate (also conveniently named Chris) liked her... and Chris and I would have gotten to this point by ourselves anyway.
Whatever. What I am annoyed about is how two-timing she's becoming. The Chris that likes her went INSANE when he heard about the three of us - throwing stuff around the room, threatening my Chris, attempting to drive on 81 while insanely inebriated (and he would have, too, had it not been for Tom. We both swear to this day that we do not want to even fathom what might have happened if Tom hadn't taken his keys.) It just doesn't seem like she thinks about anyone but herself, or that she doesn't care what happens to anyone even if it's her fault. For example:
-My friend, who she called rape on, could have gotten kicked out of school. And she still acts like it's some kind of joke or something.
-When the Chris's had their drama, I sat her down to talk about it and she told me she didn't really care about anything except what people were thinking of her.
-How quickly she dropped all feelings she had for Derek as soon as he criticized her for half of a second for something that was pretty seemingly messed up.
-She knows how much Chris likes her now. She knows perfectly well. So Friday, she left me with my head in a toilet to go make out with him. Saturday, she spends all day smoking up and boning the guy she'd been boning (the one whose roommate she kissed.)
So I've tried to talk to her, and I tried to make her not sound like a slut. I tried to say that I was in the same boat. But I was honest and I was real. I addressed her actions as a serious problem, because they are. This was a week ago. I've seen no difference in said actions.
I can't take it. I've even tried warning the Chris that she's leading on. And so has everyone on his hall because he's so blind-sided by her, although everyone else can see through it perfectly well. He's so goddamn stubborn though... so he has to find out for himself, I guess.
I don't want her hanging out with these guys anymore. All that results is trouble and they don't deserve that anymore than I deserve to be associated with all that she causes. Fuck this. I don't know what else I can possibly do.