Jul 12, 2006 22:15
Song of the Moment: My American Heart - The Process
One of the most disappointing things in life could possibly having the ability to give so much good or do so much good to someone that needs it and have them not want it. It is when you want to help so bad because sometimes they don't know what they are doing to themselves is bad and yet they refuse what you offer.
In a way, it is very commendable for the person resisting because ultimately, it is up to them to help themselves. Other times, having too much pride just can end up hurting the person in the end.
There is so much I want to do for a certain individual because he/she is such a good hearted person who fell through the cracks and was forgotten. But with helping them would mean that they would have to radically change their lives, forget about some friends, and maybe even move.
Maybe I'm way in over my head and I should just not think about it. Maybe I'm trying to be like God and I really shouldn't. Maybe, the real person that needs the help is myself. In either case, the worst feeling in the world is not being able to help someone because they don't want it not because they don't need it.
Yours Truly, Me, Myself, and I