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After a while, you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning, and company doesn't mean security
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts, and presents aren't promises
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open
And you learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrows ground us, too uncertain for plans
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much
So you plant your garden and decorate your own soul
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
And you learn that you really can endure
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth
And you learn and learn
With every goodbye, you learn
"After A While" by Veronica A. Shoffstall