Feb 10, 2008 02:47
Just reading some stuff in the news about a young woman shooting 2 of her college classmates and then shooting herself. The shooters mom came forward and said something like she didnt know why she did it... It made me wonder should parents be held responsible for their child's actions no matter what age? Should it matter if the child still lives with the parents or not. I'm starting to think it should. I dont care what age you are, your parents have 100% effect on what you do and why you do it. People who come from good parents dont go and kill others. I'm not gonna sit here and say I'm perfect and that I have never thought bad things about myself and others, but the decision to not act them out had a big difference on the person I am today. I dunno just a wierd thought. Maybe like parents should be held responsible for their childs actions until they move out of their parents house... but then what do you do when you have a 40 yr old that still lives at home. Does someone's age have an affect on the person you are. Honestly, I feel as if we dont truly learn who we are until we have gone out and been on our own. Just to let everyone know I have an uncle who is like 40-something still living at home, so this is not bias. I mean kinda wierd though that the mom has like no clue her child wants to kill ppl.?.?. how crazy is that??? she doesnt know her own child??? I dunno some wierd shit going through my mind.
So I have a crazy ass crush and I cant get over it.
I've also decided that I will try to be laid back and somewhat cool... like chill and nonchalant... if thats how you spell it. lol I will try to be... different maybe. I still feel as if there is no reason for me to lower my standards for how a friend should be, but at the same time maybe I am too strict. I mean I can have the same standards just losen them a lil right? like not be so hard on someone for living up to my expectations all the time. I am seriously your worse nightmare when it comes to friendships. To those who have stuck by me, THANK YOU! To those who have bailed, I'M SORRY!