Couples Therapy prompt 33.4 How much do you know (or want to know) about your partner's exes?
I'm quite happy not to know anything. It's all in the past, what possible bearing can it have on our relationship? I think this is only sensible given that whenever Elaine learns anything about any of my exes she gets jealous. And there's no reason for it - I wouldn't be with her if I was in love with anyone else.
The only person that could make a difference is Kelly's father. It's hard not to know he exists, given the evidence. But Elaine told me that he left when he knew she was pregnant and they've never spoken since. So I know he's not part of Kelly's life and not going to be unless she chooses to, which as far as I know, she hasn't. If she did, then I would deal with it then - there's no point in worrying about something that may never happen.
The only person that could make a difference is Kelly's father. It's hard not to know he exists, given the evidence. But Elaine told me that he left when he knew she was pregnant and they've never spoken since. So I know he's not part of Kelly's life and not going to be unless she chooses to, which as far as I know, she hasn't. If she did, then I would deal with it then - there's no point in worrying about something that may never happen.