An interesting
quote: "The smallest good deed is better than the grandest good intention."
Am reading
How to help a grieving friend, because I know, in the past, I've made mistakes. I don't think I've focussed my own need of helping over the other's person's need to deal (fortunately), but I know I may have expressed care and concern in
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My mother reminded me whenever I lamented the death of Kitty Kitty that he was 'better off' (dead) than living in pain and incurably ill, as he was.
How acceptable this is may depend on how true this is.
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I adore that passage by Khalil Gibran and quote it to S all the time. Because I started dating when I was young, I always forgot who I was and became an extension of the other person. After having discovered who *I* was, I find that I have so much more to bring to the table.
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I found your post on the intelligence "security" breaches interesting. I hadn't known your profession before... had my eyebrows up. I don't think I'd have guessed that you worked for the govt.
Oh, and on the event eliciting these posts - a loved one of a dear friend died in an accident. Unexpected, unnatural and I am close to my friend, so I can feel the pain. Guess it's just part of life. This adulthood thing is soooo overrated.
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You've got that right.
Be well, and remember you can't help anyone if you don't take care of yourself.
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Yes, I'm well aware. Fortunately my suicidal days are well behind me and I'm healthy and happy.
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