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[shmoopiness]

      I have cable and internet back finally!  I had rented a movie in case things didn't work out today and it was called "Bella" (of course I had to rent a movie named after my dog!) but it wasn't about a dog at all.  It was a very sad movie that had lots of sweet moments in it and I cried of course, but then I also cried during "Click" so you

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[devvie]

I think that there still is a lot of love there with Philip. You were not only his wife but his friend and he doesn't want the friendship to go away. I've seen it with my Dad and Mom. My Dad still after 30 years of divorce calls my Mom sometimes to talk and get something off his chest, but he knows never to talk about his wife to my Mom. She put the kabosh on that pretty much right away as she felt she didn't want to be any part of their relationship. He has me to talk to when my step-monster gets out of hand...LOL. :D

Seriously she has been a bit of a nasty person...sometimes really mean to us (my Dad's kids), but both my parents are very forgiving and usually I don't hold on to grudges. I've accepted her flaws...to some extent and can love her despite them. I guess that came with age.

Still I think you're right about not discussing Philip's relationship with Julie with him. Sometimes my Mom and my family worry when one of my brother's ex-wife starts acting all nice nice, because he went through so many years of hell during and after the marriage.

I'm with you also, people mistake drama and fighting for passion and it's not. Sure people will argue, that's human...but sometimes it becomes such a part of the relationship. And drama is not love.

And ROFL, I watch t.v. with my pooch! Glad to hear you have your cable up and running. I'm going to check out what that movie "Bella" is about. :D

[dognabit]

I just saw this because I missed it when I was checking my friends page before and even though we already talked about this I thought I'd say also that I think maybe Philip misses you and I think he didn't pick well because Julie seems to like fighting all the time. I think Philip might regret making the decision he did to be with her. I hope he didn't upset you to much.