Alles wird gut
Do you know those situations where you can't escape a confrontation? The adrenalin flooding your blood and you have to keep yourself from shaking, an inner fight between fear, determination and willpower?
As planned I waited until my boss sent all others out to their sites and tried to find a mutual solution. There was no mistake allowed on my side ... one false word or the loss of my self-control would have ended in immediate dismissal, with three months without a cent of unemployment benefits.
It helps a lot to know that your family, beloved and friends give you full support, no matter how things go. So what really could happen to me aside financial disadvantage? Nothing ^v^
And it wasn't me losing my self-control... it was my boss. Two days later, I feel sorry for a 50 year old man, unable to talk about problems before he can't handle them calm anymore. After a short argument he left the room, enraged and slamming the door shut. It was enough time for me to clarify my points though, that his behavior is simply unacceptable and that I won't terminate the contract if he is the one trying to mob me out of his company.
After he left, I took my time to clean my desk out, getting all stuff that is mine from the car and of course all the empty bottles that have stacked up beside my desk ^v^; It was welcome time to calm down myself again... just because I keep cool on the outside doesn't mean I can't boil inside.
So after this "Worst boss-behavior scenario" came true, I simply followed my plan for this case. I'm sick at home for the next two weeks now (acute psychic decompensation *gg*) and will prepare the trial with my lawyer in this time as well as getting more time after those two weeks have passed.
Not the most "honorable" path in my opinion, but the one that brings most advantages for me after almost three years of being exploited and permanently ruining my body and social life. I'll be able to prepare my landscaping master, spend time with Nel and my family and start renovating our apartment in the Black Forrest ^v^
Worst thing happening is that my boss gets "right" in the trial (What is very unlikely here in Germany) and that I have a financial loss therefore. My legal protection should avoid that though.... and I can just advise anyone to get this kind of insurance. No matter how peaceful we are... this world is full of idiots ^v^
So there is time now to take care of things. I can jog again ^^ I really missed that... getting my body into better condition and recovering from several mechanical injuries I got during work.
No more kindergarten, except I visit Nel at work ^^
And there will be time to prepare my own buisiness. Holy shit XD
Hope everybody out there is having less shit in their lives right now and you're doing fine!
As planned I waited until my boss sent all others out to their sites and tried to find a mutual solution. There was no mistake allowed on my side ... one false word or the loss of my self-control would have ended in immediate dismissal, with three months without a cent of unemployment benefits.
It helps a lot to know that your family, beloved and friends give you full support, no matter how things go. So what really could happen to me aside financial disadvantage? Nothing ^v^
And it wasn't me losing my self-control... it was my boss. Two days later, I feel sorry for a 50 year old man, unable to talk about problems before he can't handle them calm anymore. After a short argument he left the room, enraged and slamming the door shut. It was enough time for me to clarify my points though, that his behavior is simply unacceptable and that I won't terminate the contract if he is the one trying to mob me out of his company.
After he left, I took my time to clean my desk out, getting all stuff that is mine from the car and of course all the empty bottles that have stacked up beside my desk ^v^; It was welcome time to calm down myself again... just because I keep cool on the outside doesn't mean I can't boil inside.
So after this "Worst boss-behavior scenario" came true, I simply followed my plan for this case. I'm sick at home for the next two weeks now (acute psychic decompensation *gg*) and will prepare the trial with my lawyer in this time as well as getting more time after those two weeks have passed.
Not the most "honorable" path in my opinion, but the one that brings most advantages for me after almost three years of being exploited and permanently ruining my body and social life. I'll be able to prepare my landscaping master, spend time with Nel and my family and start renovating our apartment in the Black Forrest ^v^
Worst thing happening is that my boss gets "right" in the trial (What is very unlikely here in Germany) and that I have a financial loss therefore. My legal protection should avoid that though.... and I can just advise anyone to get this kind of insurance. No matter how peaceful we are... this world is full of idiots ^v^
So there is time now to take care of things. I can jog again ^^ I really missed that... getting my body into better condition and recovering from several mechanical injuries I got during work.
No more kindergarten, except I visit Nel at work ^^
And there will be time to prepare my own buisiness. Holy shit XD
Hope everybody out there is having less shit in their lives right now and you're doing fine!