I don't know your situation very well, to be honest I don't know it at all (^ ^)' But there's one thing I know: don't give up your dreams, what you really want in this life. I agree with you, dreams must be alive inside of us but I think they need to be exposed as well! They need to truly live, it's hard to pursuit a dream, or even keep it in ours hearts sometimes. People or even ourselves can make it die before becoming real, but it's from the bottom of heart, please, keep it. Sometimes things don't go as we planned and the dreams seems dead but maybe there's other way to pursue it. I understand how life seems so senseless if we start to think really deep but we can give meaning to it by doing the things we wish from our hearts (^ ^)
"On the other hand is ur attitude too positive, people will try to fool and abuse u, not paying any attention to ur feelings. Basically being nice means to be taken for a ride all the time, unless u find the way to act nice and polite and be strong and powerful at the same time. No need to mention that this way is a lonely way of life. U are able to deal with people's feelings and emotions, and u are used to acting nice and fair, and u are honest even though u cant show much of ur feelings, like crying..."
Once more I think I can totally understand this, if you act with too much kindness and yet too strong, people will not realize that you may get hurt too. It's really lonely, it's hard not to feel bad and used by people but it'll come a time when someone will notice your kindness and appreciate it, that's so hard to find
sometimes!
Being aggressive seems like a result from all the frustration of not being appreciated enough even when you're really nice, kind and caring. ( at least is how i normally feel if i'm in this kind of situation ^^' )
But, of course, it has it limits, in the past I dealt with persons who crossed the limits, being too aggressive and hateful with me. If there's one thing I learned from it was that no one must accept those kind of things, even if they come from someone you really like/love, if they start treat you like that
frequently, then it's better to be by yourself, they don't deserve too much from you.
As you said, parents nowadays don't give too much attention to their children or neither enough love...They try to get that by it's own ways, probably in a bad manner.
Unfortunately, the way we're living is making the world becoming more and more rotten x__x
I wish I was able to give a bigger comment but my english isn't really that good, language barrier >___< And I'm sorry if I said something that wasn't proper ;__; I hope you feel better and don't give up your dreams!! :3 *hugs* You seem to be a really nice and caring person, it's really good being able to talk to you (^ ^)
Sorry for the late reply! I'm always very busy with my shop. ^^' Hope u dun mind.
Thank you very much for the comment. ☆(o◕ ε ◕o) And I really feel better and overcome my depression...it's time to find my dreams again and work on it to make them real. But sometimes I fall back and start to think or ponder about the whole world and things that are goin on, which I can't change...Well, everyone has their problems and everybody must cope with that in his own way. Even though it is kind of hard sometimes. ^^
I think ur english is pretty good dear! o.o Not like mine...<--- does a lot of mistakes, but oh well I dun really care at all. xD I'm still in the progress of learning to speak it properly. Heh~ And yep, the language barrier really annoys me too, from time to time.
But there's one thing I know: don't give up your dreams, what you really want in this life.
I agree with you, dreams must be alive inside of us but I think they need to be exposed as well!
They need to truly live, it's hard to pursuit a dream, or even keep it in ours hearts sometimes.
People or even ourselves can make it die before becoming real, but it's from the bottom of heart, please, keep it.
Sometimes things don't go as we planned and the dreams seems dead but maybe there's other way to pursue it.
I understand how life seems so senseless if we start to think really deep but we can give meaning to it by doing the things we wish from our hearts (^ ^)
"On the other hand is ur attitude too positive, people will try to fool and abuse
u, not paying any attention to ur feelings. Basically being nice means to be
taken for a ride all the time, unless u find the way to act nice and polite
and be strong and powerful at the same time. No need to mention that this way
is a lonely way of life. U are able to deal with people's feelings and
emotions, and u are used to acting nice and fair, and u are honest even though
u cant show much of ur feelings, like crying..."
Once more I think I can totally understand this, if you act with too much kindness and yet too strong, people will not realize that you may get hurt too.
It's really lonely, it's hard not to feel bad and used by people but it'll come a time when someone will notice your kindness and appreciate it, that's so hard to find
sometimes!
Being aggressive seems like a result from all the frustration of not being appreciated enough even when you're really nice, kind and caring.
( at least is how i normally feel if i'm in this kind of situation ^^' )
But, of course, it has it limits, in the past I dealt with persons who crossed the limits, being too aggressive and hateful with me.
If there's one thing I learned from it was that no one must accept those kind of things, even if they come from someone you really like/love, if they start treat you like that
frequently, then it's better to be by yourself, they don't deserve too much from you.
As you said, parents nowadays don't give too much attention to their children or neither enough love...They try to get that by it's own ways, probably in a bad manner.
Unfortunately, the way we're living is making the world becoming more and more rotten x__x
I wish I was able to give a bigger comment but my english isn't really that good, language barrier >___<
And I'm sorry if I said something that wasn't proper ;__;
I hope you feel better and don't give up your dreams!! :3 *hugs*
You seem to be a really nice and caring person, it's really good being able to talk to you (^ ^)
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Thank you very much for the comment. ☆(o◕ ε ◕o)
And I really feel better and overcome my depression...it's time to find my dreams again and work on it to make them real. But sometimes I fall back and start to think or ponder about the whole world and things that are goin on, which I can't change...Well, everyone has their problems and everybody must cope with that in his own way. Even though it is kind of hard sometimes. ^^
I think ur english is pretty good dear! o.o Not like mine...<--- does a lot of mistakes, but oh well I dun really care at all. xD I'm still in the progress of learning to speak it properly. Heh~
And yep, the language barrier really annoys me too, from time to time.
Glad u are here! （ｏ⌒∇⌒ｏ）ノ♥ *huggles*
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