owning one's privilege (posting from my dsi; couldnt write everything.. limit on characters! lol)
This week has been one interesting one to say the least. Me and Hai have our troubles but it doesn't take too long for us to resolve things.
A day or two ago he tells me one of his ex-girlfriends is apparently pregnant with one of his friends. I didn't think much of it-I approached it with my nose up, snubbing the thought of the girl. But I guess she and Hai were really good friends and I figured she'd want him to be the god father. And I guess I was annoyed because all I could think was that she brought it upon herself: getting addicted to some white powdery substance, finding some unreliable guy to hook up with, not being careful...etc. And I had to come up with something to make me not think of bad things of Hai and not worry about him still liking her. I got over it the same night he told me over the phone. :)
But then that night I ended up dreaming that somehow Daveanna got pregnant. I was meeting her little girl; she was like the size of a 4 year old and she wore her hair in high blonde pig tails. She was rather cute. Daveanna asked me to be her god mother and of course I complied. Even though she looked to be 4, it was the first day that Daveanna had her. she was still learning, and two accidents happened and hmy dream ended with me looking for a first aid kit.. pretty weird.
Then comes today. I'm working and then I text Mike out of the blue since I hadn't talked to him in awhile. He tells me he's gonna be a dad. At first I dont really want to believe it and hoped that he was lying because his girl seemed to give him a lot of trouble and I was dismayed to think that he'd be stuck with her.
It wasnt until after work that he called me and we talked it out. He asked me to be the god mother if his child and it didn't register in my head that to be handed a title like that is a pretty big deal. Because I'm sure he knows lots of women in his life; to be the one he thinks of first and the one he trusts the most is saying something. So i respect Hai's ex edit: more than I did before. I feel bad for it; I should be proud that he is really important to someone else besides myself.
But yeah. Kind of a big deal. And kind of a strange coincidence that both our opposite gender best friends are pregnant. Hahah and we both get to be god parents.
And I guess I'm kind of excited to see his kid. He has a feeling it'll be a boy and I bet him some socks that it would be a girl. And after I was thinking about it, I kind of hope I lose the bet because it will be so fun helping raise a little boy that will hopefully love me forever and ever just like the kid I used to babysit, Steven. :) I'll play video games with him and play pretend with action figures again- it'll be great! Hehe
And after talking about it with Mike, I got the full story and I'm glad that he won't be stuck to the girl. I guess he had broken up with her and then like a week later he got the news. I'm glad that he's full on positive about supporting the kid though. That makes me happy.
Yes yes. And so that is the news for now. Babies everywhere
A day or two ago he tells me one of his ex-girlfriends is apparently pregnant with one of his friends. I didn't think much of it-I approached it with my nose up, snubbing the thought of the girl. But I guess she and Hai were really good friends and I figured she'd want him to be the god father. And I guess I was annoyed because all I could think was that she brought it upon herself: getting addicted to some white powdery substance, finding some unreliable guy to hook up with, not being careful...etc. And I had to come up with something to make me not think of bad things of Hai and not worry about him still liking her. I got over it the same night he told me over the phone. :)
But then that night I ended up dreaming that somehow Daveanna got pregnant. I was meeting her little girl; she was like the size of a 4 year old and she wore her hair in high blonde pig tails. She was rather cute. Daveanna asked me to be her god mother and of course I complied. Even though she looked to be 4, it was the first day that Daveanna had her. she was still learning, and two accidents happened and hmy dream ended with me looking for a first aid kit.. pretty weird.
Then comes today. I'm working and then I text Mike out of the blue since I hadn't talked to him in awhile. He tells me he's gonna be a dad. At first I dont really want to believe it and hoped that he was lying because his girl seemed to give him a lot of trouble and I was dismayed to think that he'd be stuck with her.
It wasnt until after work that he called me and we talked it out. He asked me to be the god mother if his child and it didn't register in my head that to be handed a title like that is a pretty big deal. Because I'm sure he knows lots of women in his life; to be the one he thinks of first and the one he trusts the most is saying something. So i respect Hai's ex edit: more than I did before. I feel bad for it; I should be proud that he is really important to someone else besides myself.
But yeah. Kind of a big deal. And kind of a strange coincidence that both our opposite gender best friends are pregnant. Hahah and we both get to be god parents.
And I guess I'm kind of excited to see his kid. He has a feeling it'll be a boy and I bet him some socks that it would be a girl. And after I was thinking about it, I kind of hope I lose the bet because it will be so fun helping raise a little boy that will hopefully love me forever and ever just like the kid I used to babysit, Steven. :) I'll play video games with him and play pretend with action figures again- it'll be great! Hehe
And after talking about it with Mike, I got the full story and I'm glad that he won't be stuck to the girl. I guess he had broken up with her and then like a week later he got the news. I'm glad that he's full on positive about supporting the kid though. That makes me happy.
Yes yes. And so that is the news for now. Babies everywhere