12.08.15
David will be leaving Sunshine today, while his official farewell to Japan will be this Friday. Getting to know him, David came off as a very amusing and kind person. He is caring of others, and is a good friend. He even sat for an hour or so as I casually, though sincerely, talked about some personal emotional stresses that have bothered me for a long time. Since then, if I mentioned I couldn't sleep because of tension, he would ask if I needed to share my thoughts, to make sure I was okay. His thoughtfulness is genuine, and his sincerity is pure. I can truly say his girlfriend is blessed with a wonderful partner. A real gentleman. After a while, I fell into a slump of not knowing how to take advantage of this massive experience in Japan - I definitely felt overwhelmed. As I took steps to step back into reality, maturing and learning from the hurdles I had to overcome, I spent less time with him as he went off with the other English speakers to enjoy his short time left in Japan. However, once I remembered his upcoming parting, as well as all he's done to be a kind friend, I wanted to do something nice for him. As a treat, I ordered Pizza Hut, something he had wanted to try, yet couldn't because of the price. Last night, he, Gaoly, and I enjoyed pizza and snacks while watching movies - our own small farewell party (though he would be in Japan for another 2 days at a friend's home). Around 6am, he left, and we returned to our respective rooms. I stayed up until I heard knocking at my door around 10:30am. It was David. I assumed he was taking up my offer of helping him move out, but instead he gave me a gift. A Hello Kitty panda head pillow. I had wanted one of these but chose not to get one because of the price. When he handed it to me saying it was a token of appreciation for me, I felt overwhelmed. For him to have known exactly what I liked, and to have taken the time and money to choose a gift for a friend, I knew just how precious a friend David had become to me. It may sound like I'm making a bog deal out of something typical... but for me, this is a precious sign of an honest heart in a righteous person. A smile accompanying a selfless gesture means so much to me. It was too kind, and I shall remember his intentions for the rest of my life. I am only saddened by the fact that in his last year at BSU, I finally got to know him for 4 months, and may not have many opportunities to see him again even when I return to the US.
A person I can be casual with, not wear makeup and feel comfortable with my appearance, chill with snacks while watching a movie, take a walk just for the fresh air or a drink from a convenience store, call or text or see just because I'm bored......... so simple, yet comfortable. This precious relationship with a friend is something I've longed for and am bursting with happiness now that I can cherish it.
When you look at yourself and see who you truly love and who truly loves you, you will feel that tension in your heart of who deserves your kindness. If only I had recognized sooner.
All in all, David Whitney, I thank you for being a good friend to me. It means so very much. Thank you.
A person I can be casual with, not wear makeup and feel comfortable with my appearance, chill with snacks while watching a movie, take a walk just for the fresh air or a drink from a convenience store, call or text or see just because I'm bored......... so simple, yet comfortable. This precious relationship with a friend is something I've longed for and am bursting with happiness now that I can cherish it.
When you look at yourself and see who you truly love and who truly loves you, you will feel that tension in your heart of who deserves your kindness. If only I had recognized sooner.
All in all, David Whitney, I thank you for being a good friend to me. It means so very much. Thank you.