An FYI...
What I'm about to post is going to produce mixed responses. Some of you will be happy, some of you will hate me. To put it bluntly, I don't care what anyone else's reaction to this is. I'm doing what I want to do with my own life.
adrianpaendrag and I are back together. We've talked about the problems we were having, and they've been resolved. This is something I want, not something I'm doing to spite people who may not agree with it. I was not coerced into anything. Everything I'm doing is of my own volition.
To those who are happy or indifferent, thanks for being there. I know things got really hectic, and I know both of us weren't actually thinking clearly, and I'm sorry for my part of that. If you want to get together, e-mail or call (the cell is on). We're still at MCC, so time may be somewhat limited, but it would be really great if we could hang out with some people at some point.
To those who disagree with my decision, I have a few things to say. First - stop trying to run my life. I know what I want, and I know how I want to go about getting it. I'm a big girl, and I have been for a while...it just took me some time to figure that out. Second - I really don't care what your opinions of me or my husband are. If you don't like it, it's not like you have to talk to us or anything like that. Third - if you want to say something to me, be civil. I'm not going to put up with childish or petty crap anymore. From anyone. If you can't keep a civil tongue, I'm just going to ignore you. ravenshrinkery should pay special attention to this last point. If anyone calls or messages and starts problems of any sort, I'm just going to either hang up the phone or block the screen name, whichever is appropriate. We're all adults here, so let's try to act like it.
Well, that's about it. I'm leaving comments on, and I'm making this a public post. I'd like to state for the record that no one is going to change my mind about this, because it is what I want, regardless of what some people would like to think. If you can't accept that, do us both a favor and leave me alone.
adrianpaendrag and I are back together. We've talked about the problems we were having, and they've been resolved. This is something I want, not something I'm doing to spite people who may not agree with it. I was not coerced into anything. Everything I'm doing is of my own volition.
To those who are happy or indifferent, thanks for being there. I know things got really hectic, and I know both of us weren't actually thinking clearly, and I'm sorry for my part of that. If you want to get together, e-mail or call (the cell is on). We're still at MCC, so time may be somewhat limited, but it would be really great if we could hang out with some people at some point.
To those who disagree with my decision, I have a few things to say. First - stop trying to run my life. I know what I want, and I know how I want to go about getting it. I'm a big girl, and I have been for a while...it just took me some time to figure that out. Second - I really don't care what your opinions of me or my husband are. If you don't like it, it's not like you have to talk to us or anything like that. Third - if you want to say something to me, be civil. I'm not going to put up with childish or petty crap anymore. From anyone. If you can't keep a civil tongue, I'm just going to ignore you. ravenshrinkery should pay special attention to this last point. If anyone calls or messages and starts problems of any sort, I'm just going to either hang up the phone or block the screen name, whichever is appropriate. We're all adults here, so let's try to act like it.
Well, that's about it. I'm leaving comments on, and I'm making this a public post. I'd like to state for the record that no one is going to change my mind about this, because it is what I want, regardless of what some people would like to think. If you can't accept that, do us both a favor and leave me alone.