Randomness
After running into somebody that I would rather not see, I had this random thought of the day: It's really hard not to become jaded about dudes when all the ones that you have higher standards of let you down....
This is very true. I mean there are guys out there when you meet you know instantly that their full of shit...I mean this is a given, some guys are just plain trash. But then there are those nice guys out there that begin to change your percpective on the male species and what not and everythings going great...until you find out that they too are full of shit. But these guys are worse then the first example, because they'll let you you think about how great they are and their happily feeding you bullshit on a silver platter and you have no problem with it because you have no idea. See these are the guys that leave you jaded...
I had a conversation with one of my guy friends a while ago and we were talking about the male-female relationship on campus. Basically I asked him why all of the campus were such garbage.( This was my frustrated/angry period lol) but anyways he proceeded to tell me that it was because of the way that females act on campus, dudes only act the way that they do because they know that girls are only out to use them. Now after thinking about this point, I had to agree to a certain extent. Yes there are girls out there that will date a guy if she doesnt like him as long as he buys her shit...but thats not every female... i had the same conversation with my brother the other day and we both agreed that this mentality only leads to a nasty cycle where girls use guys so that they don't risk getting hurt and guys use girls for the same reason...very sad
I'm not really sure of what my point in writing this was. I guess its just one of those things where you think about things for a while and you just need to write it down or something.neways i guess my main point is that its not fair to judge every dude as being full of shit and its not fair to judge every female as being man users...hmmm....but its hard not to become jaded...maybe someday i'll find someone that will change my mind...peace
This is very true. I mean there are guys out there when you meet you know instantly that their full of shit...I mean this is a given, some guys are just plain trash. But then there are those nice guys out there that begin to change your percpective on the male species and what not and everythings going great...until you find out that they too are full of shit. But these guys are worse then the first example, because they'll let you you think about how great they are and their happily feeding you bullshit on a silver platter and you have no problem with it because you have no idea. See these are the guys that leave you jaded...
I had a conversation with one of my guy friends a while ago and we were talking about the male-female relationship on campus. Basically I asked him why all of the campus were such garbage.( This was my frustrated/angry period lol) but anyways he proceeded to tell me that it was because of the way that females act on campus, dudes only act the way that they do because they know that girls are only out to use them. Now after thinking about this point, I had to agree to a certain extent. Yes there are girls out there that will date a guy if she doesnt like him as long as he buys her shit...but thats not every female... i had the same conversation with my brother the other day and we both agreed that this mentality only leads to a nasty cycle where girls use guys so that they don't risk getting hurt and guys use girls for the same reason...very sad
I'm not really sure of what my point in writing this was. I guess its just one of those things where you think about things for a while and you just need to write it down or something.neways i guess my main point is that its not fair to judge every dude as being full of shit and its not fair to judge every female as being man users...hmmm....but its hard not to become jaded...maybe someday i'll find someone that will change my mind...peace