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last night jay and i were arguing about the same stupid old bull shit. then he said to me, if i told you that you had to choose between me and ______ who would you choose?
i gave him the truth, which is that forcing someone to make a choice like that is an indicator of abuse, and i would choose myself, by removing myself from the abusive situation.
this answer did not make him happy, because of course "he wasn't really asking me to choose, just wanted to know who i would choose."
I don't think i was avoiding the questions, this is really what i would do if faced with this situation. it is something i believe really strongly about, i am kind of tired of running into people who don't think this is a big deal. it is frustrating.
i gave him the truth, which is that forcing someone to make a choice like that is an indicator of abuse, and i would choose myself, by removing myself from the abusive situation.
this answer did not make him happy, because of course "he wasn't really asking me to choose, just wanted to know who i would choose."
I don't think i was avoiding the questions, this is really what i would do if faced with this situation. it is something i believe really strongly about, i am kind of tired of running into people who don't think this is a big deal. it is frustrating.