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[sheslikemercury]

SOME RANDOM FACTS ABOUT KRISTIN
1.If a song has a harmonica in it, it's pretty much a sure bet I'm going to love the song

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[girl_in_a_dream]

1. I love to drive with the windows down and the music up...
2. I like to watch Jeffs eyes when he talks to other people, they dance to his mood.
3. I am becoming who I was, who I lost, and I am better for it.
4. I am going to be able to say goodbyes this year, and it wont be a struggle.
5.I love you, and your little friend Tonia too!

[sheslikemercury]

I think, goodbyes are supposed to be hard at first. Otherwise you don't really appreciate the role the person you're saying goodbye to had in your life on the other hand, goodbyes shouldn't continually hurt. They hurt for a while since you're adjusting but sometimes after the pain is gone, you realize it WAS for the best, and the goodbye takes on a whole new meaning.

Gosh, that radio is up LOUD.

[girl_in_a_dream]

True, I just hate it when its with people you didnt think it would be.

[sheslikemercury]

I absolutely know what you mean by that. I had that with two of my "Never in a million years will they be gone.." people this past year. But the hope is, the void won't stay vacant for long. YOu either adapt, or others begin to fill the needs that were left empty.

[girl_in_a_dream]

adapt meaning?

[sheslikemercury]

meaning the needs in your life change, which is really why the person left to begin with. like if you need person A for blank emotional need, and person A leaves chances are you're going to grow and not need blank emotions anymore, or person B will come along and be able to fill that...maybe?

[girl_in_a_dream]

I see what you are saying, and yes that makes sense.

[sheslikemercury]

Let's add in a new twist though. How about the times, person A leaves from your life, but you still need blank emotional need. THen what?

[girl_in_a_dream]

Yeah I was thinking of that too.. I guess you have to ask yourself if they really filled that need, and if they did, maybe see if you can incorporate them in yoru life, if they didnt, then keep living until someone/thing does