I guess a creep is better than a psychotic bitch as far as roommates go
So I came home drunk at 4:30 am on Friday after going out drinking with D. I thought our friendship was on the rocks though I think perhaps me being broke from my job more created a rift. I did something I never usually do and let the guys at the bar we went to buy me drinks because I was broke. I think I feel more okay doing it with D because then there are two of us they are buying drinks for and it is easier to blow them off when it comes time to leave. It was funny though, remember that episode of Sex and the City where Miranda lies and says she's a flight attendant in speed dating because men do not want to date a woman who has a higher ranking career than them? Well I noticed that when I honestly told some moron who bought me jello shots and beer what I did for a living he got a disappointed look on his face because my job is a college degree requiring job and his wasn't.
When I came home my roommate started knocking on my door to ask me to hang out. I ignored him, because I am sorry but unless it is an emergency 4:30 am is not an okay time to bother me.
The next night I locked myself out because I had thrown my keys by my bed in my drunkeness unbeknown to me. I had to call my roommate and have him let me in. He then turned this into him asking me why I was mad at him and why I won't hang out with him. He told me his roommates usually get mad at him for no reason. I later had the thought, were your other roommates girls? They probably were just creeped out by you. I said no I wasn't mad and thank you for letting me in. He then insisted I watch a movie with him for a bit. I said okay but sat on a chair instead of on his bed like he wanted, he kept cajoling me to sit on the bed. I thought okay, he's not being creepy, I will just watch this movie since he was nice enough to let me in. He then started doing things like trying to hold my hand and putting his arm around me and kissing me on the cheek. I said, hey I am really tired I need to go to bed. He actually said, if you are so tired why don't you just sleep here in my bed? I just acted like he was joking and said no really, I'm going to my room now, bye. He then kept insisting how it would be no trouble to just sleep in his bed.
So weird. I understand men wanting to get laid and everything, but hitting on your roommate so tackily just seems in very poor taste. If you need to go hunt down some meaningless sex I am pretty sure it is wise to leave your home to find said people to engage in sex with. Even if I were hypothetically attracted to my roommate I would have the sense to not act on it.
When I came home my roommate started knocking on my door to ask me to hang out. I ignored him, because I am sorry but unless it is an emergency 4:30 am is not an okay time to bother me.
The next night I locked myself out because I had thrown my keys by my bed in my drunkeness unbeknown to me. I had to call my roommate and have him let me in. He then turned this into him asking me why I was mad at him and why I won't hang out with him. He told me his roommates usually get mad at him for no reason. I later had the thought, were your other roommates girls? They probably were just creeped out by you. I said no I wasn't mad and thank you for letting me in. He then insisted I watch a movie with him for a bit. I said okay but sat on a chair instead of on his bed like he wanted, he kept cajoling me to sit on the bed. I thought okay, he's not being creepy, I will just watch this movie since he was nice enough to let me in. He then started doing things like trying to hold my hand and putting his arm around me and kissing me on the cheek. I said, hey I am really tired I need to go to bed. He actually said, if you are so tired why don't you just sleep here in my bed? I just acted like he was joking and said no really, I'm going to my room now, bye. He then kept insisting how it would be no trouble to just sleep in his bed.
So weird. I understand men wanting to get laid and everything, but hitting on your roommate so tackily just seems in very poor taste. If you need to go hunt down some meaningless sex I am pretty sure it is wise to leave your home to find said people to engage in sex with. Even if I were hypothetically attracted to my roommate I would have the sense to not act on it.