well this is how we feel having Jami in our lives
well even though our lives where all messed up bye the adoption of Jami but we are sure very very joyed and happy to have found her that is all we ever want was to find her..She is such a sweet girl and needs to see that other then her parents she grow up with that her real father and his family dose love her very much..we have always looked for her and the day we found her was one of the best days of our lives ...it was even better when she sent us her pictures and then the sound of her voice..but we all can't wait till the day we get to meet her in person...my wife thinks of her as one of her own she told me that she is so greatful to have such an awsome daughter in her life like Jami..she has three other daughters and loves them very very much but she has always wanted to know my first born..and she now has that chance to do that..well we are all so happy to have found her that we do cry sometimes because we are happy but she is well worth it....we cann't wait till the day she gets married to her really funny boyfriend Arron he is crazy ....he keeps a big smile on her face and they are really happy together....Im hoping that Jami will be able to have her 4 kids like she wants if not all 4 then maybe atleast 1 of her own then adopted the rest...we can't wait till the day she says she is pregnant we will have more grandchildren to have fun with we have one right now she is a little ham....well we are hoping that we will not have to wait till Jami gets married to meet her we would like to meet her before her wedding ....but we are going at her pace...we don't want to over whelma her or push her away we love truning on the computer and being able to chat with her my wife loves to pick on her and make her smile but like she said it's hard to see jami's emotions when we are on the computer....we are so glad her parents did a wounderful job with her they are awsome for doing the job they have done...thank you guys so much..you took care of her so dam well...well the only thing we have to wait for now is her to think of us as part of her family seeing how all the kids call her there sister and we call her our daughter well she is even if she was adopted we still love her as she is still my daughter .....i only wish she would tell us how she feels about us now we know what she was feeling before but not now....we hope that someday she will open up to us and tell us how she feels about our family....seeing how Crystal and Lynn would really love to get to know her more..Crystal will be getting Married real soon and would love to have her in her wedding....but not sure if Jami would be in her wedding...she said she is scared to ask her also she said she don't know how she will feel if Jami says no...we told her she will never know till she asks her..well we are really really really happy to have my first born in our lives for good...well going to end this here for now i'll update more later on when we come home..for now im going to end it here...thanks again Jami and talk to you soon love ya father Rob and step mother Sherri....well if she thought of all of us as her parnets she would have three mothers and two fathers holy shit thats alot...lol