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From: "Latias" Save Address | Block Address
To: angelkitten1314@Neomail.com
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Date: 20 Feb 2007 18:44:23 -0800
I'm not saying this how recent or whatever it was, but I feel this should be cleared up at a time that the three of us [Foamy, I, and yourself], have the time to work this out, so there's not arguments... I don't want either of us to seem like we're trying to pick a fight here, because we really only want things just to remain sane and everything. I talked to Foamy for a long time and apparently he feels a bit... Babied... Or belittled... Or whatever he said as the word, my memory isn't that great in a pinch. I tend to not really understand what I'm saying or do and how it offends people and we both appreciate it greatly that you try to help us, but we prefer that you didn't... as much as you do currently... I think there is such a thing as too much help... Thanks a lot for caring (I really appreciate it because I don't have many friends like you do that are willing to help, understand, or listen to problems... A lot of people I know would just laugh in my face or make fun of me or label me for my problems). Foamy apparently thinks your mean but I don't think you are, I just think we're both confused here. All you need to do is just patiently say "I don't like the way you're acting". (Trust me, I've been around people with the same problem... for years...) I believe that I'm also guilty of misunderstanding a lot of things said, and when I say things I tend to try to make them so interesting that it's not interesting anymore and nobody can understand it. I over think things and end up making more mistakes when I try harder (it's like a nervous obsessive thing). Like the time I got kicked from the guild for apparently fighting or instigation but I don't know. I think I make a lot of misunderstandings and judge before I know the facts. I feel bad when people are mad at me for something I don't know why, and I don't usually understand the seriousness of a situation or why people are upset. Foamy told me as well that he has the same problem with things basically. I also use words "out of character", so sometimes it gets confusing. I also have a hard time reading long things that don't have paragraphs without breaks and issues with reading comprehension so I tend to misunderstand things or their meanings. It's basically with only reading and remembering things though. (It's basically an issue with the "judgment part" of your brain...) I end up not finishing sentences or anything else for that matter usually. (I get bored of things quickly.) When you yelled at me in the guild one time before, I got really upset but I still maintained my focus with things. I have a difficult time expressing how I feel, especially when I'm very afraid of hurting others feelings. I mispronounce things fully in the real life and it's only natural that my messages would be misunderstood. But I just want you to know to a basic point that I usually misunderstand or don't really know that what I say hurts your feelings. And I want to know why you told me off for something I said in the guild. I don't need to know who told you but I want to know truthfully what it was for though. That's basically it because I spent a long time typing this and I have to go now.
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To: angelkitten1314@Neomail.com
Subject:
Date: 20 Feb 2007 18:44:23 -0800
I'm not saying this how recent or whatever it was, but I feel this should be cleared up at a time that the three of us [Foamy, I, and yourself], have the time to work this out, so there's not arguments... I don't want either of us to seem like we're trying to pick a fight here, because we really only want things just to remain sane and everything. I talked to Foamy for a long time and apparently he feels a bit... Babied... Or belittled... Or whatever he said as the word, my memory isn't that great in a pinch. I tend to not really understand what I'm saying or do and how it offends people and we both appreciate it greatly that you try to help us, but we prefer that you didn't... as much as you do currently... I think there is such a thing as too much help... Thanks a lot for caring (I really appreciate it because I don't have many friends like you do that are willing to help, understand, or listen to problems... A lot of people I know would just laugh in my face or make fun of me or label me for my problems). Foamy apparently thinks your mean but I don't think you are, I just think we're both confused here. All you need to do is just patiently say "I don't like the way you're acting". (Trust me, I've been around people with the same problem... for years...) I believe that I'm also guilty of misunderstanding a lot of things said, and when I say things I tend to try to make them so interesting that it's not interesting anymore and nobody can understand it. I over think things and end up making more mistakes when I try harder (it's like a nervous obsessive thing). Like the time I got kicked from the guild for apparently fighting or instigation but I don't know. I think I make a lot of misunderstandings and judge before I know the facts. I feel bad when people are mad at me for something I don't know why, and I don't usually understand the seriousness of a situation or why people are upset. Foamy told me as well that he has the same problem with things basically. I also use words "out of character", so sometimes it gets confusing. I also have a hard time reading long things that don't have paragraphs without breaks and issues with reading comprehension so I tend to misunderstand things or their meanings. It's basically with only reading and remembering things though. (It's basically an issue with the "judgment part" of your brain...) I end up not finishing sentences or anything else for that matter usually. (I get bored of things quickly.) When you yelled at me in the guild one time before, I got really upset but I still maintained my focus with things. I have a difficult time expressing how I feel, especially when I'm very afraid of hurting others feelings. I mispronounce things fully in the real life and it's only natural that my messages would be misunderstood. But I just want you to know to a basic point that I usually misunderstand or don't really know that what I say hurts your feelings. And I want to know why you told me off for something I said in the guild. I don't need to know who told you but I want to know truthfully what it was for though. That's basically it because I spent a long time typing this and I have to go now.
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