Second Best?
I guess I have figured out why I got so pissed off yesterday. I feel second best. Mum had arranged this stay weeks ago, and maybe she should have said "Sorry, but I have arrangements" but no, she just went right ahead and cancelled our weekend. Why is Lee so much more important that me...
Meh, I am being silly again.
I had to say he could bring his wife to my hand fasting if he really wanted. I dont want her there, but he pulled the old emotional black mail trick and like an idiot I fell for it. See, a few weeks after my handfasting, he has a long weekend of work (he is a train conductor), and so he started saying stuff like "You have to choose, I can come up for your hand fasting, or I can come up and keep mum company on my day off" because he cant go away for two week ends close together without her, and mum doesnt like her coming to stay for any legnth of time. See, Helen believes anyone from "Up North" is thick. And she treats us like morons. And she is God. Damn. RUDE. Patronises anyone who isnt like her, with things like "Paganism is just a phase, right?" which is what she kept saying to me last time I saw her. There are a lot of different people at the moot, with different lifestyles, different beliefs, and do I want her treating them like crap? No. Its MY day, mine and Scotts, and there was enough drama after my civil wedding. But anyway, I said if he must, he can bring her, but she must be on her best behaviour, any patronising or bitching and she will be asked to leave. He promises she will be. And he better keep that promise. If it wasnt for the fact I want my family there I'd have told him where to go really, making me have to choose like that.
Ah well, whats done is done. No point dwelling on it, and you never know, she might behave herself at the moot. And I know I have friends who will soon set her straight if she doesnt ;P
Oh, anyone any good with myspace? I opened an account there, dunno why, and I want to make a layout, but I cant get it to display an image where the extended network box is. I am sure I followed instructions right, but its not working, the pic just doesnt show.
But a cheery picture to end! This just proves who REALLY owns my sofa!!
Meh, I am being silly again.
I had to say he could bring his wife to my hand fasting if he really wanted. I dont want her there, but he pulled the old emotional black mail trick and like an idiot I fell for it. See, a few weeks after my handfasting, he has a long weekend of work (he is a train conductor), and so he started saying stuff like "You have to choose, I can come up for your hand fasting, or I can come up and keep mum company on my day off" because he cant go away for two week ends close together without her, and mum doesnt like her coming to stay for any legnth of time. See, Helen believes anyone from "Up North" is thick. And she treats us like morons. And she is God. Damn. RUDE. Patronises anyone who isnt like her, with things like "Paganism is just a phase, right?" which is what she kept saying to me last time I saw her. There are a lot of different people at the moot, with different lifestyles, different beliefs, and do I want her treating them like crap? No. Its MY day, mine and Scotts, and there was enough drama after my civil wedding. But anyway, I said if he must, he can bring her, but she must be on her best behaviour, any patronising or bitching and she will be asked to leave. He promises she will be. And he better keep that promise. If it wasnt for the fact I want my family there I'd have told him where to go really, making me have to choose like that.
Ah well, whats done is done. No point dwelling on it, and you never know, she might behave herself at the moot. And I know I have friends who will soon set her straight if she doesnt ;P
Oh, anyone any good with myspace? I opened an account there, dunno why, and I want to make a layout, but I cant get it to display an image where the extended network box is. I am sure I followed instructions right, but its not working, the pic just doesnt show.
But a cheery picture to end! This just proves who REALLY owns my sofa!!