SSDY Cont.
Ok, so I learned a lesson. Dont try to have a deep meaningful discussion with Dan in the wee hours of the morning. Turns out when I asked what he really wanted, he said he wanted a break because it's what he thought I wanted. He told me when he came home. What he really wanted was to sleep! And he figured by saying what he thought I wanted to hear I would let him sleep. *sigh* Make a long story short, we are fine and laughing sheepishly at what happened. Yes, he is scared, so am I. No, he isnt ready, is anyone ever? But we are going to face whatever life throws at us together.
When he came home and we talked, and after we made up, I said "Oh shit! I better go post on LJ that everything is ok!" He rolled his eyes and said "Do I need to get on and explain why you said a bunch of mean stuff about me again?" I blushed and said "Yeah, probably...."
Anyway, thank you to those who called or left comments to me. It's nice to know I have friends and family who care! I realised today that, although I know developing a relationship with my daughter would give her someone to lean on when she needs it, I didnt realise that it gives me someone too. Thanks, Dee! Youre call meant a lot to me!
So, crisis over! Life is good! We're looking at a car today that Dan's mom is going to help us pay for. And next week we have the whole house to ourselves! YAY!
On an odd note, this old guy, looked about 80, was following me around town yasterday in a blue Neon. He wasnt subtle, he honked the horn and tried to wave me over to talk to him several times as he followed me downt he road. I didnt go over, of course, but his car had a for sale sign on it and I kept thinking "This guy is creepy! But I wonder what he wants for his car...."
Must go. Dan takes his driving test next saturday and I have to call places to set it up.
Sidewalks of Redford beware! lol
Love you all!
When he came home and we talked, and after we made up, I said "Oh shit! I better go post on LJ that everything is ok!" He rolled his eyes and said "Do I need to get on and explain why you said a bunch of mean stuff about me again?" I blushed and said "Yeah, probably...."
Anyway, thank you to those who called or left comments to me. It's nice to know I have friends and family who care! I realised today that, although I know developing a relationship with my daughter would give her someone to lean on when she needs it, I didnt realise that it gives me someone too. Thanks, Dee! Youre call meant a lot to me!
So, crisis over! Life is good! We're looking at a car today that Dan's mom is going to help us pay for. And next week we have the whole house to ourselves! YAY!
On an odd note, this old guy, looked about 80, was following me around town yasterday in a blue Neon. He wasnt subtle, he honked the horn and tried to wave me over to talk to him several times as he followed me downt he road. I didnt go over, of course, but his car had a for sale sign on it and I kept thinking "This guy is creepy! But I wonder what he wants for his car...."
Must go. Dan takes his driving test next saturday and I have to call places to set it up.
Sidewalks of Redford beware! lol
Love you all!