Not cool.
I am quite upset. If you don't want to read a venting me... stop now. Otherwise, enjoy, I guess.
Well... I'm really pissed off at one of my best guy friends. I'm not going to say names or anything. Basically... I feel very hurt by him. He lied to me, he lied to one of the most important people in my life and, worst of all... he's lying to all of his friends and himself as well. He suddenly seems to only care about his reputation... and doesn't seem to mind totally ruining another person's image with his lies to protect his wholesome, "I'm going to be a youth minister" image. He doesn't care if... to keep his appearance up, he has to lie to and hurt someone who really cares about him and has definitely risked our friendship being over for good. He made assumptions and instead of trying to talk things out with me, decided just to lie to me and break his word. He even knows that I know. He knows I was crying and upset and still has yet to make a move. And that's fine with me. He'd just hear the click as I hang up on him. The rest of this is me venting as if I was talking to him. Don't mind me. No one except for me, him and another person will really understand this.
Fine then... have it your way. Let everyone think that she is just some psycho who's obsessed with you. Let everyone think you were some sort of victim in this situation. Let everyone think you are the best thing since sliced bread. I know the truth. I know about your lies. I know you thought you could just ignore the whole thing, hope it disappeared with her when she left that one weekend. Your dirty little secret got out huh? Oh no... now it's time to come up with a bunch of lies to try to cover it up right? Oh wow... that's big of you. Let's tell everyone something different. She must be the liar right? She must have made all the mistakes. So just avoid her. Act like nothing happened. Treat her like dirt. And since I'm friends with her... I must be avoided and treated like crap as well. Don't return the phone calls. Don't even bother trying to explain to me what's going on. You just assumed that I would automatically pick sides and not listen to you right? Well, I was ready and willing to be friends with you both. Spend time with both seperately if need be. You promised you would spend time with me and meet my boyfriend. But then you assumed I would want to only hang out with you with her there or something. You told me you couldn't wait to meet him. We even talked the day before and you said we'd do something. But no... you had to lie to me. (Hope you had an awesome skiing trip.) You had to avoid me because you assumed I was always around her. Well screw you if our frienship meant that little to you. I don't want to talk to you, I don't want to see you. Don't even try to explain yourself to me. You say you hate guys who do crap like this to girls... well wow. When did you become such a hypocrite?! I've witnessed enough of your actions to have a very clear picture of who you have become... and I want nothing to do with it. I am very disappointed. Good luck with whatever you do... you'll need it.
Well... I'm really pissed off at one of my best guy friends. I'm not going to say names or anything. Basically... I feel very hurt by him. He lied to me, he lied to one of the most important people in my life and, worst of all... he's lying to all of his friends and himself as well. He suddenly seems to only care about his reputation... and doesn't seem to mind totally ruining another person's image with his lies to protect his wholesome, "I'm going to be a youth minister" image. He doesn't care if... to keep his appearance up, he has to lie to and hurt someone who really cares about him and has definitely risked our friendship being over for good. He made assumptions and instead of trying to talk things out with me, decided just to lie to me and break his word. He even knows that I know. He knows I was crying and upset and still has yet to make a move. And that's fine with me. He'd just hear the click as I hang up on him. The rest of this is me venting as if I was talking to him. Don't mind me. No one except for me, him and another person will really understand this.
Fine then... have it your way. Let everyone think that she is just some psycho who's obsessed with you. Let everyone think you were some sort of victim in this situation. Let everyone think you are the best thing since sliced bread. I know the truth. I know about your lies. I know you thought you could just ignore the whole thing, hope it disappeared with her when she left that one weekend. Your dirty little secret got out huh? Oh no... now it's time to come up with a bunch of lies to try to cover it up right? Oh wow... that's big of you. Let's tell everyone something different. She must be the liar right? She must have made all the mistakes. So just avoid her. Act like nothing happened. Treat her like dirt. And since I'm friends with her... I must be avoided and treated like crap as well. Don't return the phone calls. Don't even bother trying to explain to me what's going on. You just assumed that I would automatically pick sides and not listen to you right? Well, I was ready and willing to be friends with you both. Spend time with both seperately if need be. You promised you would spend time with me and meet my boyfriend. But then you assumed I would want to only hang out with you with her there or something. You told me you couldn't wait to meet him. We even talked the day before and you said we'd do something. But no... you had to lie to me. (Hope you had an awesome skiing trip.) You had to avoid me because you assumed I was always around her. Well screw you if our frienship meant that little to you. I don't want to talk to you, I don't want to see you. Don't even try to explain yourself to me. You say you hate guys who do crap like this to girls... well wow. When did you become such a hypocrite?! I've witnessed enough of your actions to have a very clear picture of who you have become... and I want nothing to do with it. I am very disappointed. Good luck with whatever you do... you'll need it.