To all the nay sayers regarding Jen and I's relationship.
Yes I will admit there is a possibility we will break up, but then again it is also possible that my bamboo plant on my desk is going to
sprout legs and sing and dance an irish jig. It most likely won't happen, but I have to admit the possibility of it happening.
Everyone saying "You guys won't last" helps no one, in fact if anything it hurts everyone invovled. It hurts Jen and I and causes unneeded stress on our relationship, it hurts your relationship with Jen because it shows you don't respect her or her choices, and it also hurts the relationship between you and I. I am a really nice guy and I really try hard to respect people and their choices, and I in turn hope they will show me the same respect.
I know that the people saying things about Jen and I are doing it for the right reasons (they don't want to see Jen get hurt etc...), but right now we are really enjoying our new relationship, and what you are doing is hurting us.
Frankly I'm just tired of all the doubt. For the first few weeks I had to battle with the "He's just a rebound" thing that everyone thought
(and hey, i can't blame them for that, i had all the stereotypical signs of being a bad boy rebound). But we've been dating for over a
month now so I thought we could move past all of that.
Everyone in life makes there own choices, we appreciate your warnings and we will try not to do anything rash, but please respect us and our
decisions.
sprout legs and sing and dance an irish jig. It most likely won't happen, but I have to admit the possibility of it happening.
Everyone saying "You guys won't last" helps no one, in fact if anything it hurts everyone invovled. It hurts Jen and I and causes unneeded stress on our relationship, it hurts your relationship with Jen because it shows you don't respect her or her choices, and it also hurts the relationship between you and I. I am a really nice guy and I really try hard to respect people and their choices, and I in turn hope they will show me the same respect.
I know that the people saying things about Jen and I are doing it for the right reasons (they don't want to see Jen get hurt etc...), but right now we are really enjoying our new relationship, and what you are doing is hurting us.
Frankly I'm just tired of all the doubt. For the first few weeks I had to battle with the "He's just a rebound" thing that everyone thought
(and hey, i can't blame them for that, i had all the stereotypical signs of being a bad boy rebound). But we've been dating for over a
month now so I thought we could move past all of that.
Everyone in life makes there own choices, we appreciate your warnings and we will try not to do anything rash, but please respect us and our
decisions.