Ok so here's me again...
So I don't know how many of you have gotten bored with me... but probably a good lot. I realized today that I have become what I always said I wouldn't. When my friend Molly got married everything she talked about was the wedding. Honestly it was like "Hi Molly, nice day huh?" "Yeah I hope it's this nice for our wedding day...speaking of...." Or "Hey Molly did you hear about the church social tommrow night" "Yeah.. I want that band to play at our wedding... speaking of...."
I always said I hated brides like that, girls who get so obsessed with the fact that they are getting married. But now I have come to realize that getting married is really exciting.. and you want to share every little detail with everyone you know. I have a little over 4 months till me and Rob become husband and wife and I can baely breathe when I think about it.
Our invitations came in the mail today. They are a little blander then I had thought they would be. I think I will jazz them up a bit. Maybe some ivory ribbon or black lace in each one. I am adding tiny cards that say "join us at our wedding site for wedding/registry details" and under that it will say blah blah blah.com (only it will be our actual site addy).
Anyway.. I don't want people bored with me. I've come to the conclusion that only two groups of people are as excited about you big day as you are and that is 1. other brides and 2. matronly ladies who think of you as a daughter and /or your mother. Guy friends just don't give two shits and girlfriends that aren't maried yet are jealous. I know this because this is the reaction I get from every guy friend "cool send me an invite" (end of convo!) and his is the reaction I get from all unmarried or single girlfriends "Oh that's so great... I wish I was getting married..."
So anyhooo.. I've said my piece and in the spirit of not becoming Molly, here's an entry about my horrible day.
It started with me having nightmares about being late for work and then having to get up and go in an hour early. Our Invites came and I showed them to Rob all excited and got a rather bland reply. I felt jipped! All my hardwork and money (I designed them and paid out of my pocket) and he couldn't even pretend to be excited. Then it just got worse... much worse.... the highlight of work was chilling with Athur and Kyle and also that Kyle accidentally broke some bottles of Cranbery juice so that they were still pefectly fine to drink but not to sell.. so I got lot's o cranbey juice today. Then I went home and had to deal with what I am now calling the horrendous never ending KEYBANK DRAMA!!! Don't ask... but honestly I will never ever use keybank for anything again. Then I decided to go do some errands so I went uptown and got stuff done. One of the things meant going to the dollar tree.. and of course the bitchy girl was there. I have decided after having her be beyond rude to me over and over again as well as watching her be very rude to other customers I am going to call he supevisor and recommend she get fired. I'm sorry I am not trying to be a bitch but honestly she has argued with me when I've asked her to wrap things (glass..they are supposed to wrap them), she has frightened old people, yelled at mom's with kids, and basically acts completely put out whenever someone expects her to (dear God no) wait on them at the register. Today was my breaking point. I went up to her register (she was the only one there) and she was wandering aimlessly aound the store acting like she didn't see me. When She finally GOT AROUND to waiting on me she glared at me and whipped my stuff roughly into bags. She then without a please or anything .. and I swear to god between gritted teeth said "six dollars" (there was change too but I don't remember how much) Then she literally threw the bags at me. I'm so sick to death of her.. and I am getting almost all my wedding favors and flowers from their store (well supplies to make them anyway..) I have aleady spent over 50 dollars just in their store. Just on wedding suplies. I don't deserve to be treated like shit because she's a bitch.
Anyway my day is now me sitting at Rob's computer so that I don't desturb him being on mine.... Actually I am rather bored. Ta for now....
I always said I hated brides like that, girls who get so obsessed with the fact that they are getting married. But now I have come to realize that getting married is really exciting.. and you want to share every little detail with everyone you know. I have a little over 4 months till me and Rob become husband and wife and I can baely breathe when I think about it.
Our invitations came in the mail today. They are a little blander then I had thought they would be. I think I will jazz them up a bit. Maybe some ivory ribbon or black lace in each one. I am adding tiny cards that say "join us at our wedding site for wedding/registry details" and under that it will say blah blah blah.com (only it will be our actual site addy).
Anyway.. I don't want people bored with me. I've come to the conclusion that only two groups of people are as excited about you big day as you are and that is 1. other brides and 2. matronly ladies who think of you as a daughter and /or your mother. Guy friends just don't give two shits and girlfriends that aren't maried yet are jealous. I know this because this is the reaction I get from every guy friend "cool send me an invite" (end of convo!) and his is the reaction I get from all unmarried or single girlfriends "Oh that's so great... I wish I was getting married..."
So anyhooo.. I've said my piece and in the spirit of not becoming Molly, here's an entry about my horrible day.
It started with me having nightmares about being late for work and then having to get up and go in an hour early. Our Invites came and I showed them to Rob all excited and got a rather bland reply. I felt jipped! All my hardwork and money (I designed them and paid out of my pocket) and he couldn't even pretend to be excited. Then it just got worse... much worse.... the highlight of work was chilling with Athur and Kyle and also that Kyle accidentally broke some bottles of Cranbery juice so that they were still pefectly fine to drink but not to sell.. so I got lot's o cranbey juice today. Then I went home and had to deal with what I am now calling the horrendous never ending KEYBANK DRAMA!!! Don't ask... but honestly I will never ever use keybank for anything again. Then I decided to go do some errands so I went uptown and got stuff done. One of the things meant going to the dollar tree.. and of course the bitchy girl was there. I have decided after having her be beyond rude to me over and over again as well as watching her be very rude to other customers I am going to call he supevisor and recommend she get fired. I'm sorry I am not trying to be a bitch but honestly she has argued with me when I've asked her to wrap things (glass..they are supposed to wrap them), she has frightened old people, yelled at mom's with kids, and basically acts completely put out whenever someone expects her to (dear God no) wait on them at the register. Today was my breaking point. I went up to her register (she was the only one there) and she was wandering aimlessly aound the store acting like she didn't see me. When She finally GOT AROUND to waiting on me she glared at me and whipped my stuff roughly into bags. She then without a please or anything .. and I swear to god between gritted teeth said "six dollars" (there was change too but I don't remember how much) Then she literally threw the bags at me. I'm so sick to death of her.. and I am getting almost all my wedding favors and flowers from their store (well supplies to make them anyway..) I have aleady spent over 50 dollars just in their store. Just on wedding suplies. I don't deserve to be treated like shit because she's a bitch.
Anyway my day is now me sitting at Rob's computer so that I don't desturb him being on mine.... Actually I am rather bored. Ta for now....