My outlook . . .
I think relationships should be open and fun! I mean, it's like they have eachother tied on ropes, and that's not healthy. Each person is an individual and they need their own space...time to be with friends, and just do stupid stuff...but within relationship limits (no cheating). And not feel obligated or constantly worrying about "what is so-and so going to think, or is my bf/gf going to approve of me doing this?" And trust is a big thing. Without it you have NOTHING! People just don't understand that at all now. People get so jealous and uptight when they are in relationships it's crazy. Get over it! So what if there is a guy at a party that your girl is at... Instead of just blowing up and accusing her of stuff that never happened, you have to trust her enough to know what to do in a situation like that! If you don't trust your significant other, then you can just forget it. You're going to be very miserable and it won't work out. Jealousy. Fuck it. Jealousy is just a lack of confidence, and may be a little bit of fear of them finding someone "better".
Well, if your significant other actually decided to cheat on you, then they really didn't care about you in the first place...and in that case, you should count your blessings...MOVE ON! Find someone that won't treat you bad. There are tons of fish in the sea! You'll find one, and it's not the end of the world, I promise.
There. Glad I got that off my chest...now if I could only tell her this in person. . .
Well, if your significant other actually decided to cheat on you, then they really didn't care about you in the first place...and in that case, you should count your blessings...MOVE ON! Find someone that won't treat you bad. There are tons of fish in the sea! You'll find one, and it's not the end of the world, I promise.
There. Glad I got that off my chest...now if I could only tell her this in person. . .