oh INdeed.
Tiffany yelled at me a lot this week. I didn't like it, and have created the habit of going to the gym whenever she comes home. It is a healthy habit. I am also in the habit of leaving when she yells at me regardless of if it is time to go or not.
Anyway, she was yelling at me to clean the house. I told not to yell and that it isn't an effective way of convincing me to do things. She said she needs to yell. I said okay and left.
[Keep in mind she was still yelling when I closed and locked our front door]
ME : I hope the rest of your day treats you better than you feel in the apartment. Feb 20, 2010 9:37:13 AM
ME : Please write a list of things I do that piss you off so I can address them without losing my hearing. There are more mature ways to communicate and be civil. Feb 20, 2010 9:43:09 AM
TIFFANY : I have already talk to you about this, you are adlut i shouldnt have to tell you over and over again like a kid. Im sick of it and excuse me for yelling but Feb 20, 2010 9:49:40 AM
ME : If you won't speak civilly as an adult, then I have reason to listen as one. I don't excuse your yelliing so much as I laugh at it. Feb 20, 2010 9:52:18 AM
TIFFANY : Its my suff you are disrespecting. And ever reason you have give me for not cleaning is cause of me, dont u think that sounds stupid. You live her too, Feb 20, 2010 9:53:35 AM
TIFFANY : So u should clean no matter what. Feb 20, 2010 9:53:48 AM
ME : I won't argue semantics over it's 'your things' I should clean, but there's a pattern. You yell and I ignore you. Time for a new tactic. Work now, I'll ttyl. Feb 20, 2010 9:56:38 AM
ME : Oh, and about respecting another's things, please ask before moving my stuff. I understand if you dislike where I put them, but I like knowing where they are. Feb 20, 2010 10:00:18 AM
TIFFANY : why should i talk to you as a adult when u act like a kid, i feel like im living with one. You think its funny that u make me so mad that i yell, dont u think Feb 20, 2010 10:00:32 AM
TIFFANY : Maybe you need to change And fix the problem. Feb 20, 2010 10:03:20 AM
TIFFANY : You get mad that travi pee on your suff, so thats way i pick up your suff off the floor. And if u pick up after yourself i wouldnt have too Feb 20, 2010 10:04:00 AM
TIFFANY : This week has been the frist time i have yelled at you, i have not said anything to u, cause i wanted to see if u would clean by yourself. And when i try to Feb 20, 2010 12:24:45 PM
TIFFANY : Talk to you all you give me excuse, so yea im going to get mad and yell when i cant stand living like this Feb 20, 2010 12:25:12 PM
ME : Speaking of not living with my filth, when are you moving your stuff to Cassie's (sorry about my poor spelling)? I need to know when I can bring in furniture. Feb 20, 2010 12:36:00 PM
TIFFANY : Im not moving to cassie anymore, most likey im staying to aug. But im stll moving my suff out, im going to do it next month sometime Feb 20, 2010 12:49:40 PM
ME : Ooh hey! Thanks for moving my nail kit out of the bathroom. It's not like I use it in there. The sink counter is a much more appropriate place to cut my nails. Feb 20, 2010 12:50:21 PM
ME : Alrighty. My spring break is next month, so I'll probably bring furniture with me when I come back. The timing should work. Thank you for vacuuming. Feb 20, 2010 12:51:32 PM
ME : (The vacuum thanks is sincere and not sarcastic. I really do appreciate it.) Feb 20, 2010 12:52:04 PM
TIFFANY : How old are u. Lol! I moved it cause i clean the toilet, im sorry i didnt put it back. So since i clean it, its your turn next time. Feb 20, 2010 12:53:49 PM
TIFFANY : I will vacumm when i get home, just make sure all your suff is off the floor. Feb 20, 2010 12:54:55 PM
ME : I'll take care of it, I actually thought you already did. I can be very motivated when I'm not getting bitched at and insulted. Feb 20, 2010 1:42:37 PM
TIFFANY : Im already home i will do it Feb 20, 2010 1:43:56 PM
OH so how interesting! She is not moving out anymore. Oh, some things worth mentioning, I'm not allowed to sit on her couches anymore or watch her TV. When I told her that those things give me no reason to pay the cable bill, she said she would pay for it. I assured her I would quote her on that. This entire time, my voice is very calm while she is shrieking. I even chuckled to myself a few times because she looked and sounded ridiculous.
Work in the costume shop was awesome. It wasn't stressful, Bonnie brought Starbucks snacks, and we all chatted about astrology, dating, and (well) roommates. It was a better day. The only other person working was Desmond (who actually works there as opposed to me who is technically taking a class). I felt special.
Then I went to the gym. I cycled for 20 minutes, did the rowing thing for 20 minutes and then showered. I sang in the shower and sounded dreadful. It's okay though, because now I'm clean.
I hope Josh comes over tonight.
Anyway, she was yelling at me to clean the house. I told not to yell and that it isn't an effective way of convincing me to do things. She said she needs to yell. I said okay and left.
[Keep in mind she was still yelling when I closed and locked our front door]
ME : I hope the rest of your day treats you better than you feel in the apartment. Feb 20, 2010 9:37:13 AM
ME : Please write a list of things I do that piss you off so I can address them without losing my hearing. There are more mature ways to communicate and be civil. Feb 20, 2010 9:43:09 AM
TIFFANY : I have already talk to you about this, you are adlut i shouldnt have to tell you over and over again like a kid. Im sick of it and excuse me for yelling but Feb 20, 2010 9:49:40 AM
ME : If you won't speak civilly as an adult, then I have reason to listen as one. I don't excuse your yelliing so much as I laugh at it. Feb 20, 2010 9:52:18 AM
TIFFANY : Its my suff you are disrespecting. And ever reason you have give me for not cleaning is cause of me, dont u think that sounds stupid. You live her too, Feb 20, 2010 9:53:35 AM
TIFFANY : So u should clean no matter what. Feb 20, 2010 9:53:48 AM
ME : I won't argue semantics over it's 'your things' I should clean, but there's a pattern. You yell and I ignore you. Time for a new tactic. Work now, I'll ttyl. Feb 20, 2010 9:56:38 AM
ME : Oh, and about respecting another's things, please ask before moving my stuff. I understand if you dislike where I put them, but I like knowing where they are. Feb 20, 2010 10:00:18 AM
TIFFANY : why should i talk to you as a adult when u act like a kid, i feel like im living with one. You think its funny that u make me so mad that i yell, dont u think Feb 20, 2010 10:00:32 AM
TIFFANY : Maybe you need to change And fix the problem. Feb 20, 2010 10:03:20 AM
TIFFANY : You get mad that travi pee on your suff, so thats way i pick up your suff off the floor. And if u pick up after yourself i wouldnt have too Feb 20, 2010 10:04:00 AM
TIFFANY : This week has been the frist time i have yelled at you, i have not said anything to u, cause i wanted to see if u would clean by yourself. And when i try to Feb 20, 2010 12:24:45 PM
TIFFANY : Talk to you all you give me excuse, so yea im going to get mad and yell when i cant stand living like this Feb 20, 2010 12:25:12 PM
ME : Speaking of not living with my filth, when are you moving your stuff to Cassie's (sorry about my poor spelling)? I need to know when I can bring in furniture. Feb 20, 2010 12:36:00 PM
TIFFANY : Im not moving to cassie anymore, most likey im staying to aug. But im stll moving my suff out, im going to do it next month sometime Feb 20, 2010 12:49:40 PM
ME : Ooh hey! Thanks for moving my nail kit out of the bathroom. It's not like I use it in there. The sink counter is a much more appropriate place to cut my nails. Feb 20, 2010 12:50:21 PM
ME : Alrighty. My spring break is next month, so I'll probably bring furniture with me when I come back. The timing should work. Thank you for vacuuming. Feb 20, 2010 12:51:32 PM
ME : (The vacuum thanks is sincere and not sarcastic. I really do appreciate it.) Feb 20, 2010 12:52:04 PM
TIFFANY : How old are u. Lol! I moved it cause i clean the toilet, im sorry i didnt put it back. So since i clean it, its your turn next time. Feb 20, 2010 12:53:49 PM
TIFFANY : I will vacumm when i get home, just make sure all your suff is off the floor. Feb 20, 2010 12:54:55 PM
ME : I'll take care of it, I actually thought you already did. I can be very motivated when I'm not getting bitched at and insulted. Feb 20, 2010 1:42:37 PM
TIFFANY : Im already home i will do it Feb 20, 2010 1:43:56 PM
OH so how interesting! She is not moving out anymore. Oh, some things worth mentioning, I'm not allowed to sit on her couches anymore or watch her TV. When I told her that those things give me no reason to pay the cable bill, she said she would pay for it. I assured her I would quote her on that. This entire time, my voice is very calm while she is shrieking. I even chuckled to myself a few times because she looked and sounded ridiculous.
Work in the costume shop was awesome. It wasn't stressful, Bonnie brought Starbucks snacks, and we all chatted about astrology, dating, and (well) roommates. It was a better day. The only other person working was Desmond (who actually works there as opposed to me who is technically taking a class). I felt special.
Then I went to the gym. I cycled for 20 minutes, did the rowing thing for 20 minutes and then showered. I sang in the shower and sounded dreadful. It's okay though, because now I'm clean.
I hope Josh comes over tonight.