So, what do you do when you're the victim?

[shaido]

I doubt many people read this journal any more as other websites and social media become more and more popular, this sort of thing falls by the wayside.

Right now I am going through a rough patch. I've had people accuse me of stuff at work and the boss has taken their side of events to be true (because there are multiple sources it must be true right?).

Then there's the sexual harassment directed towards me. Dick jokes and vaseline references. Gay innuendo, etc.
But a woman can be offended by simply reminding them to "take off their work shirt" so it can be washed at the end of the day. Strange that.

Another staff member isn't doing her job and has been using me as a scapegoat for stuff not being done and because she's hellbent on a management position that will never happen she is making life hell for everyone.

So, what do you do when you're the victim? I can't vent on facebook because it gets back to work through rumours.
I haven't journalled in a long time and I haven't been to meditation because of the work hours.

I have no idea what to do. Some people just say "keep your mouth shut" and keep working.