AIM conversation...
yuriy830 (4:45:12 PM): why do girls have to be attracted to assholes? I mean really, ugh
GraverHead (4:45:35 PM): become an asshole
yuriy830 (4:45:39 PM): lol
GraverHead (4:45:41 PM): and r u calling me an asshole?
yuriy830 (4:45:44 PM): I'm thinking about it
yuriy830 (4:45:45 PM): lol
yuriy830 (4:45:46 PM): no!
yuriy830 (4:46:10 PM): you're just lucky
GraverHead (4:46:17 PM): i see
yuriy830 (4:46:21 PM):
GraverHead (4:46:42 PM): which asshole and which girl are you talking about?
yuriy830 (4:46:57 PM): no asshole in particular, and Dee, duh
GraverHead (4:47:00 PM): i see
yuriy830 (4:47:15 PM): "If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her power over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.
So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to like you."
GraverHead (4:48:27 PM): interseting
yuriy830 (4:48:28 PM): just a random website thing
yuriy830 (4:48:34 PM): well, it's like common knowledge
yuriy830 (4:48:42 PM): I knew all this and it sucks that I'm not an asshole
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yuriy830 (4:49:31 PM): wtf am I?
GraverHead (4:49:55 PM): honestly, i think you and i both lacked emotion
yuriy830 (4:50:18 PM): I didn't expect you to say that about yourself
yuriy830 (4:50:43 PM): I do find that to be true though about me and that is the biggest thing that me and Dee talked about
GraverHead (4:51:14 PM): yea
GraverHead (4:51:22 PM): i do have a very hard time showing emotion
GraverHead (4:51:28 PM): and that's cuz of my past, i'm sure
yuriy830 (4:51:46 PM): :-/ I do too
yuriy830 (4:51:49 PM): what's in your past?
yuriy830 (4:51:52 PM): if you don't mind
GraverHead (4:52:24 PM): all through my grade school years i was an outcast
GraverHead (4:52:33 PM): i was different from everyone and often i got made fun of
GraverHead (4:52:54 PM): so i ended up becoming very reserved
yuriy830 (4:53:32 PM): I see
yuriy830 (4:53:51 PM): I'm not sure why I'm the way I am, I know that I had terrible stage fright always
yuriy830 (4:53:59 PM): afraid of showing people myself
GraverHead (4:54:05 PM): me too
GraverHead (4:54:14 PM): hence why i did stage crew and not stage performance
GraverHead (4:54:28 PM): ... that and i hoped to get a certain girl who didn't happen
yuriy830 (4:54:33 PM): I almost pissed my pants every time I had to swim at a swim meet
yuriy830 (4:54:35 PM): >.>
yuriy830 (4:54:53 PM): sigh, I do know about that
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yuriy830 (4:57:23 PM): I did not know that we had so much in common
yuriy830 (4:57:24 PM):
GraverHead (4:57:34 PM): heh
GraverHead (4:57:48 PM): perhaps that's why we've remained friends for so long despite not seeing each other
yuriy830 (4:57:57 PM): heh
yuriy830 (4:58:01 PM): probably
yuriy830 (4:58:12 PM): you are one of my best friends if I may say so
GraverHead (4:58:17 PM): likewise
yuriy830 (4:58:25 PM): I don't really have many of those
GraverHead (4:58:35 PM): same here
GraverHead (5:07:27 PM): i gtg get rdy for work
yuriy830 (5:07:34 PM): ok
yuriy830 (5:07:35 PM): cya
GraverHead (5:07:40 PM): laters
GraverHead (4:45:35 PM): become an asshole
yuriy830 (4:45:39 PM): lol
GraverHead (4:45:41 PM): and r u calling me an asshole?
yuriy830 (4:45:44 PM): I'm thinking about it
yuriy830 (4:45:45 PM): lol
yuriy830 (4:45:46 PM): no!
yuriy830 (4:46:10 PM): you're just lucky
GraverHead (4:46:17 PM): i see
yuriy830 (4:46:21 PM):
GraverHead (4:46:42 PM): which asshole and which girl are you talking about?
yuriy830 (4:46:57 PM): no asshole in particular, and Dee, duh
GraverHead (4:47:00 PM): i see
yuriy830 (4:47:15 PM): "If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her power over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.
So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to like you."
GraverHead (4:48:27 PM): interseting
yuriy830 (4:48:28 PM): just a random website thing
yuriy830 (4:48:34 PM): well, it's like common knowledge
yuriy830 (4:48:42 PM): I knew all this and it sucks that I'm not an asshole
...
yuriy830 (4:49:31 PM): wtf am I?
GraverHead (4:49:55 PM): honestly, i think you and i both lacked emotion
yuriy830 (4:50:18 PM): I didn't expect you to say that about yourself
yuriy830 (4:50:43 PM): I do find that to be true though about me and that is the biggest thing that me and Dee talked about
GraverHead (4:51:14 PM): yea
GraverHead (4:51:22 PM): i do have a very hard time showing emotion
GraverHead (4:51:28 PM): and that's cuz of my past, i'm sure
yuriy830 (4:51:46 PM): :-/ I do too
yuriy830 (4:51:49 PM): what's in your past?
yuriy830 (4:51:52 PM): if you don't mind
GraverHead (4:52:24 PM): all through my grade school years i was an outcast
GraverHead (4:52:33 PM): i was different from everyone and often i got made fun of
GraverHead (4:52:54 PM): so i ended up becoming very reserved
yuriy830 (4:53:32 PM): I see
yuriy830 (4:53:51 PM): I'm not sure why I'm the way I am, I know that I had terrible stage fright always
yuriy830 (4:53:59 PM): afraid of showing people myself
GraverHead (4:54:05 PM): me too
GraverHead (4:54:14 PM): hence why i did stage crew and not stage performance
GraverHead (4:54:28 PM): ... that and i hoped to get a certain girl who didn't happen
yuriy830 (4:54:33 PM): I almost pissed my pants every time I had to swim at a swim meet
yuriy830 (4:54:35 PM): >.>
yuriy830 (4:54:53 PM): sigh, I do know about that
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yuriy830 (4:57:23 PM): I did not know that we had so much in common
yuriy830 (4:57:24 PM):
GraverHead (4:57:34 PM): heh
GraverHead (4:57:48 PM): perhaps that's why we've remained friends for so long despite not seeing each other
yuriy830 (4:57:57 PM): heh
yuriy830 (4:58:01 PM): probably
yuriy830 (4:58:12 PM): you are one of my best friends if I may say so
GraverHead (4:58:17 PM): likewise
yuriy830 (4:58:25 PM): I don't really have many of those
GraverHead (4:58:35 PM): same here
GraverHead (5:07:27 PM): i gtg get rdy for work
yuriy830 (5:07:34 PM): ok
yuriy830 (5:07:35 PM): cya
GraverHead (5:07:40 PM): laters