I had a nice long reflective response...but then LJ fooked up...[grumbles]
in short: you've basically got it. girls are irrational, and boys are horny...and sometimes the other way around. We're young. Stuff gets complicated very easily. I've learned, from past experiences, I have to def try and look at any situation pending an action from the outside. I have to look at it from all angles... and ask myself, [am i being impatient? annoying? stupid? petty? etc. etc.] I think that's why I like the internet a lot. I get a lot of time [at least a few more seconds if i want it] to really consider what I'd like to say to the person. But then again... is the instinctual response always the best one? Love is something young people tend to get confused about also, it's taken more lightly sometimes than an actual friendship. Being just friends with members of the opposite sex, is often times a whole lot better than trying to force a relationship...or just act on feelings that just may be contrived from certain incidents or whatever...Harumpf. Well, it's late and I'm sore from snowboarding tonight [woot, I wasn't on my ass the entire time!] and I don't know if I'm making sense...
In even shorter: Who knows. Everyone is different.
in short: you've basically got it. girls are irrational, and boys are horny...and sometimes the other way around. We're young. Stuff gets complicated very easily. I've learned, from past experiences, I have to def try and look at any situation pending an action from the outside. I have to look at it from all angles... and ask myself, [am i being impatient? annoying? stupid? petty? etc. etc.] I think that's why I like the internet a lot. I get a lot of time [at least a few more seconds if i want it] to really consider what I'd like to say to the person. But then again... is the instinctual response always the best one? Love is something young people tend to get confused about also, it's taken more lightly sometimes than an actual friendship. Being just friends with members of the opposite sex, is often times a whole lot better than trying to force a relationship...or just act on feelings that just may be contrived from certain incidents or whatever...Harumpf.
Well, it's late and I'm sore from snowboarding tonight [woot, I wasn't on my ass the entire time!] and I don't know if I'm making sense...
In even shorter: Who knows. Everyone is different.
--Triza
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